They insult me every single time!?!
Question:
They insult me every single time!?
my parents have some friends that live overseas and ever since i can remember they keep saying that me and their son are made for each other.but every single time they visit (4-5 times a year) they always comment on my weight and compare it to their sons.
Anyway, yesterday they came over and they kept saying how fat i am -in a polite way always lol-and the thing is i am not, i just gained some extra weight lately and i am on diet. but this situation is so frustrating and it makes sad.i always try to avoid them!what to do??
ps.and even if was fat, would it be nice to keep reminding me i am???
3 weeks ago
and every time they tell me i am fat i always feel so bad!!as if i am totally worthless
Answers:
~~*~~ They don't seem to realize that they are being rude. Don't go out of your way to avoid them. Especially when they are at your house. No one has the right to make you feel that uncomfortable in your own home. The next time they make a comment, just comment that maybe you just aren't right for their son then. You could also tell them that you still feel beautiful and that's what matters (in a joking tone and a smile). If it continues then just be straight with them. Tell them that it makes you uncomfortable. No more needs to be said. Good luck!