I'm 15 years old, and I haven't had a period in 3 months. What could be wrong w/!

I'm 15 years old, and I haven't had a period in 3 months. What could be wrong w/me?

I started having periods when I was 11. They used to be regular, but now they're all messed up. I haven't had one in over 3 months now. When I do get my period it is extremely painful, and I get really sick. I haven't had sex so I know I'm not pregnant. I'm getting kinda worried about it. I'm not underweight or stressed out or anything.... What could be wrong with me? I'm afraid to go to a doctor. I've never been to a gyn. before, and I don't know what to expect.

Please help me!

Hmmm . . . sorry to tell you, honey, but you really do need to go to the doctor. When our bodies get out of whack, it's usually 'cuz there's something going on that shouldn't be! I'm sorry to hear about your painful periods, I suffered with them for many years. They tell you it gets better after having a baby . . . BIG LIE. The one thing that really works (talk to your mom and doc about this) is birth control pills. They regulate your period so that it's not too heavy, doesn't last too long, and best of all, doesn't cause so much pain! No more missing a day of school every month!

I know the gynecologist can be a little scary, but again, talk to your mom (sister, aunt, friend or friend's mom). It is a little embarassing the first time, and it may help to have a woman doctor. I've had both, and though the male doctors I've had have been wonderful and totally professional, I just simply prefer going to a female doctor.

The nurse will take your temp and blood pressure (like a normal visit). Then she'll give you a paper gown and paper blanket and ask you to get undressed. She'll leave the room. Get undressed (everything off) and put on the paper gown. Sit up on the examining table and put the paper blanket across your lap. Pretty soon the doctor will knock and ask if you're ready. He or she will come in and proceed with the examination. Usually, the doctor will explain what she is doing as she goes along. Feel free to ask questions when your nervous or curious. There will be poking and prodding of all your body parts. She'll do a breast exam and then, what we all hate--the pelvic exam. This is slightly uncomfortable, but if you just relax, it won't hurt and will be over in seconds.

If you totally and completely cannot speak to your mother about this, please go to Planned Parenthood for your check up. Yes, they do lots more than just birth control. But three months without a period does warrant a check up.