If you have an orgasm, will you REALLY know :(?!
Question: If you have an orgasm, will you REALLY know :(?
And, I didn't make any sounds. It felt good for like 3 seconds. I really don't want to believe that that little second was an actual orgasm, cause right now I'm really disappointed if it was :(
Answers:
It sounds like it was an orgasm but it was just a weak one. Orgasms can vary in intensity and length. The way to have a longer one is to have sex for a longer period of time, that way your clitoris can store up more blood and the orgasm will be longer and more intense. I hope this helps.
You can have small orgasms or big ones, but chances are, you'll know if it's an orgasm. They're pretty spectacular.
If you're wondering this, you didn't have an orgasm.
Don't sound like an orgasm to me. When you have one, you will definitely know it.
"Orgasm is a brief -- even when it feels like longer, it usually only goes on for a handful of seconds -- peak of sexual excitement which begins during and follows the plateau phase. Orgasm for someone with a penis often involves involuntary contractions of the prostate gland, vas deferens and seminal vesicles which usually (but not always!) also cause the ejaculation of semen. Orgasm for those with a vagina often involves a series of involuntary muscle contractions around the vagina that may or may not produce an ejaculate or a vaginal secretion. For all people, throughout the whole body there is an increase in muscle tension and relaxation, especially around the pelvis, and orgasm also creates chemical changes in the body in terms of inducing hormones like endorphins. We also know that orgasm, quite literally, alters our brain: the limbic system (the part of the brain about emotions) is very involved in orgasm: orgasm can tend to trigger emotions and visual and other sensory memories.
It's really tough to describe what an orgasm feels like. Not only does it differ from person to person, one person can experience any number of different sorts of orgasms that vary with every sexual experience, from day to day. Orgasm can feel like a tickle or a hiccup, but can also feel like a very heavy head rush or wave of dizziness through the whole body. Joani Blank once described it in a sex book for kids as feeling similar to when you really, really have to pee and then finally urinating. Overall, having an orgasm is a bit like being a balloon: your body fills up with pressure, then releases that pressure when it gets to its fullest point, much like a balloon does when it pops."
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual…