My boyfriend and I tried having sex for the first time but it didn't really !
Question: My boyfriend and I tried having sex for the first time but it didn't really work!?
This is a bit detailed, so only read it if you can help out!.
So, last night my boyfriend and I decided to have sex (we're both virgins)!. Well, he couldn't actually get it in, he got it in a little bit but then it kind of stopped!. I don't know if it's because we were both pretty nervous (mainly because his parents were about to get home, but we're both 18+ in case you were wondering), or because after a while he got a bit soft from being nervous/it not working, or because I'm pretty tiny!. I've never even worn a tampon, so!.!. Was it my hymen, or one of the reasons above!? Will it work if we both try harder next time!? Thanks :/Www@Answer-Health@Com
So, last night my boyfriend and I decided to have sex (we're both virgins)!. Well, he couldn't actually get it in, he got it in a little bit but then it kind of stopped!. I don't know if it's because we were both pretty nervous (mainly because his parents were about to get home, but we're both 18+ in case you were wondering), or because after a while he got a bit soft from being nervous/it not working, or because I'm pretty tiny!. I've never even worn a tampon, so!.!. Was it my hymen, or one of the reasons above!? Will it work if we both try harder next time!? Thanks :/Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi there,
It may have been all of the above!.!.!.when you're nervous, it's hard to have sex!. Since you're both virgins (sort of I guess), it may have been really difficult!.
Just keep trying and use lot's of lube!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It may have been all of the above!.!.!.when you're nervous, it's hard to have sex!. Since you're both virgins (sort of I guess), it may have been really difficult!.
Just keep trying and use lot's of lube!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No worries, it gets better!. My husband and I actually didn't even have sex the night we got married (both virgins)!. We were just so nervous and didn't want to force it!. It's probably nothing to worry about!. It kind of sounds like you planned to have sex on a certain day from your question!. Just let it happen and things will work out much better!. It will kind of be uncomfortable at first, but you guys will get it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have never worn a tampon before than you probably have not broken your hymen
this means your vaginal walls will be very tight and probably very painful
also if he was not fully erect, that will make it harder for him to go in all the way
next time, take your time and use a lot of lube!. have him put some on himself plus put some on yourself down there
good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
this means your vaginal walls will be very tight and probably very painful
also if he was not fully erect, that will make it harder for him to go in all the way
next time, take your time and use a lot of lube!. have him put some on himself plus put some on yourself down there
good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Next time make sure you have time for foreplay and use lots of lubrication!. It could be that your hymen is very thick and will be hard to rupture!. There have been women that had to have their hymen removed by a doctor before they could have sex, called a hymenectomy!. Have faith, have privacy and try again!.
Oh, use protection!.
best wishes!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh, use protection!.
best wishes!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Usually the first time you have sex its pretty uncomfortable or it hurts!. Next time you try, it may be better!. Being nervous probably played a part in why it was so uncomfortable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
another thing is you have to be turned on too, like when he's hard, you have to be wet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yea, try harder next time!. It'll go it, he just has to push it in there!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com