How do i ask my mum if i can shave?!


Question: How do i ask my mum if i can shave!?
I am 11 and i want to shave my legs and underarms, how do i ask my mum!?
Me and my mum dont really talk about stuff like that lol!
I really do need to shave my underarmsand legs because they are really hairy and dark and very noticable, even some of my friends have noticed and they all shave! i have even said to my mum , "omg my legs are sooo horrible and hairy" and i looked at her but she didnt click on!. :(

i dont know what to say!!! please answer!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
well if you nd your mom dont talk about stuff like that!.!.!.well, I think its about time you start it! Just tell her!.!.you say "mom, I think I need to shave my legs, do you think you could help or show me the right way" !.!.!.trust me, she will! Your mom will one day be your best friend and you will laugh when you think back at how worried you were to talk to her about little stuff like this!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sometimes with conservative parents, the puberty/adult stuff doesn't click right away, and passive-agressiveness doesn't work!. You can sit your mom down and have a serious shaving talk with her!. And it's the summertime, so it's the perfect time to do it!.
I, like, you, am a very hairy girl (I even get it on my TOES!.), and started shaving at about your age!. Say that it hurts your self esteem, and she can even get you your own razor!. I think she'll realize that you need to start soon and will probably give in if she sees your'e really concerned!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

" Mom, can I ask you something!? How old were you when you started shaving!? "When she asks Why!? Explain that you feel really uncomfortable and self concious about your leg hair and that others have commented on it!. If she doesn't want you using a razor because you'd cut your self, ask about the creams available for that!. Easy to use and no bleeding involved!. Don't whine if she says not right now!. Wait a while and try another time!. Give her time to get used to the idea that puberty is coming soon!. Oh and make sure you have Period facts too, if you don't already!. That will be coming all too soon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just tell her that you really need to do this!. When I started shaving, I didn't ask my mom (not saying that this is the best choice for you)!. I just took one of my moms razors, and shaved my legs!.!.!.oh so carefully, and I got out of the shower, and got dressed, and sat on the couch next to my mom!. She put her hand on my leg, and gave me this look like WTF! I smiled, and she smiled, and that was it!. I don't know how your mom would react to that, but she DOES understand what you are going through!. Mom's have all been there before!. I'd just confront her!. Tell her you are growing up, and that it is becoming uncomfortable for you, and that you want to get rid of it!. Tell her it embarrasses you that you don't do it and that your friends have even pointed it out and it embarrasses you!. She'll (hopefully) understand! Good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

same thing that happend to me!. Be like mom i really want to shave my legs and i think i am old enough to do it!. please!. You have to learn how to do it now because it gets even harder laster like it was hard for me to tell my mom i had my period!. i got it 2 weeks ago!. Don't feel bad you have to have confidence!Www@Answer-Health@Com

One day just say your going to take a shower and add in, mom can i barrow your razor!.!.!. if she asks why just anwser with something along the lines of i was thinking about it for a long time and decided i wanted to give it a try, they really need it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just say:

"Mom, I'm growing up and maturing!. I'd really like to start shaving like all of my friends and other girls in my grade!. Would that be okay!?"

She'll probably be excited to take you to the store and buy you brand-new shaving supplies! =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

i know what your going through i just asked my mom this weekend
she agreed to buy me veet and it actually worked she was afraid of letting me shave because i could hurt myself so she got me the veet instead

good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just do it!. Honestly!. If you ask and she says no and you end up doing it anyway she'll be more angry!. Whereas if you just do it, then she can't tell you off for not listening to her =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try asking her how old she was when she started shaving, if she still doesn't take the hint then maybe the question will break the ice enough where you can just ask her straight out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Its easier to seek forgiveness than to ask permission!. Just do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

take your mother into confidenceWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just bring it up its really no big dealWww@Answer-Health@Com

jus say woman buy me a razor so i can shaveWww@Answer-Health@Com

i wud suggest waxingWww@Answer-Health@Com





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