My BF.. HELP!?!
Question: My BF!.!. HELP!!?
I've recently found out my boyfriend has a "profile" on some singles websites (sexsearch!.com, singlesnet, hornymatches!.com)!.!.!. I confronted him, and he told me it was a joke but it really bothers me that he does these things, what should I do about it!? Do men usually do this just for fun, or is he really looking for an online girl to talk with!? What do you think!?!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
While he may be just goofing off, it's unfortunate he didn't tell you about it!. If he was just goofing off, there's not much reason not to be straight about it!. On the other hand, if he's got more reason for doing it, he could be insecure about where he's at in the relationship!. Not really a good sign!.
Either way, your boyfriend has made you feel upset!. If he was goofing off, then he should want to make you feel better either by taking the profiles off, or sharing with you the hits he gets on them and what makes them so funny!. Both now, and in the future if he leaves them up!. If he's scoffing that you're asking and trying to make you feel like you're being jealous/paranoid, then he is not a good boyfriend because he doesn't care about how he's made you feel!. Either he doesn't care, or he truly is looking for a way out!.
Remember that you're an awesome person and you do NOT deserve someone making you feel bad!. If he doesn't care that you're bothered by it and doesn't try to rectify it (either by removing the profiles or sharing what's funny about them, or any other way that is all about making you feel BETTER, not making you feel like you're rude for even asking), then he isn't good enough for you and doesn't deserve you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Either way, your boyfriend has made you feel upset!. If he was goofing off, then he should want to make you feel better either by taking the profiles off, or sharing with you the hits he gets on them and what makes them so funny!. Both now, and in the future if he leaves them up!. If he's scoffing that you're asking and trying to make you feel like you're being jealous/paranoid, then he is not a good boyfriend because he doesn't care about how he's made you feel!. Either he doesn't care, or he truly is looking for a way out!.
Remember that you're an awesome person and you do NOT deserve someone making you feel bad!. If he doesn't care that you're bothered by it and doesn't try to rectify it (either by removing the profiles or sharing what's funny about them, or any other way that is all about making you feel BETTER, not making you feel like you're rude for even asking), then he isn't good enough for you and doesn't deserve you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ehhh dont worry about it, its probably just for fun when he gets bored!. take a look at his profile!. if everything is lies, its just a joke!. if everything is truth and theres stuff actually about him (real info) then he's not joking!. i dont think he's looking for another girl to mess around withWww@Answer-Health@Com
People sometimes make a joke listing on Craigslist or on some website!. But more than one profile seems way too systematic to be a joke!. Of course it bothers you, he can't be "single" and be with you!. I would trust your gut feeling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
please do urself a favor and dump him!.men dont do this as a "joke!."he's looking for a little extra action,and "joke" was a lame excuse!.he'll do it again,too!.get rid of him!Www@Answer-Health@Com