Wives views needed?!
Question: Wives views needed!?
Hubby told me that hes had a burning desire for a while to wear this one pair of my silky VS hipster panties to bed just once in a while for some bedroom kink!. I was kind of surprised and asked him why and he told me he wants to experience the feel of what its like!. He told me that it wouldnt be an everyday thing and that he had no desire to wear them all the time or anything like that!. I'm kind of deciding on it!. Anybody out there ever encounter anything similar!? What do you think I should do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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First of all, I think you should be proud that your hubby felt he coulg tell you something like that!. Alot of people don't have that kind of relationship!.
Secondly, it isn't going to hurt anyone, so why not go for it!? It could be a whole lot weirder stuff he asked for!. This is pretty mild!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Secondly, it isn't going to hurt anyone, so why not go for it!? It could be a whole lot weirder stuff he asked for!. This is pretty mild!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, I know about what you're going through!.
For one thing, it's kind of common kink for straight men to want to wear and be close to women's clothing, especially lingerie, while having sex!. These men aren't gay and aren't doing it because they want to feel or look like a woman!. Cross-dressing is just when you wear women's clothing to feel sexually aroused!. This is NOT the same as transvestism, a condition where you feel like you're in the body of the wrong gender!.
So yes, what you're husband is asking for is very common indeed, though it's probably not talked about as much as it should be!. Don't freak out that he's not "normal" in some way!. Also, I'd say you should thank him for sharing that part of himself with you!. It was probably a hard thing for him to ask!.
Look, with my husband, I've always found that a little compromise in the bedroom goes a long way!. If you indulge him, he indulges you!. You might negotiate an exchange: he gets to wear the panties, but he can't neglect your needs!. Next time you have sex, you get something you really want!. Dan Savage, the sex columnist, calls this being "GGG" or "good, giving, and game!." You're willing to indulge your partner!. After all, you love each other, right!? You want him to be happy!?
The key, though, is honest communication with each other!. Hope it works out for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
For one thing, it's kind of common kink for straight men to want to wear and be close to women's clothing, especially lingerie, while having sex!. These men aren't gay and aren't doing it because they want to feel or look like a woman!. Cross-dressing is just when you wear women's clothing to feel sexually aroused!. This is NOT the same as transvestism, a condition where you feel like you're in the body of the wrong gender!.
So yes, what you're husband is asking for is very common indeed, though it's probably not talked about as much as it should be!. Don't freak out that he's not "normal" in some way!. Also, I'd say you should thank him for sharing that part of himself with you!. It was probably a hard thing for him to ask!.
Look, with my husband, I've always found that a little compromise in the bedroom goes a long way!. If you indulge him, he indulges you!. You might negotiate an exchange: he gets to wear the panties, but he can't neglect your needs!. Next time you have sex, you get something you really want!. Dan Savage, the sex columnist, calls this being "GGG" or "good, giving, and game!." You're willing to indulge your partner!. After all, you love each other, right!? You want him to be happy!?
The key, though, is honest communication with each other!. Hope it works out for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, just ask why it has to be YOUR underwear!.!.!.if it is truly just the soft feel he is after, they do make silk boxers!.!.!.otherwise then I would think it is repressed cross dressing!. Only you can decide if you are ok with that!.
And do realize that it is a good thing that he shares this with you!.!.!.most men wouldn't dream of doing it, it means that he loves you and is secure in your marriage and trusts you!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And do realize that it is a good thing that he shares this with you!.!.!.most men wouldn't dream of doing it, it means that he loves you and is secure in your marriage and trusts you!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you had some desire that was wierd or hard to ask for, wouldn't you want your husband's support!. I know it's wierd, or whatever!. Maybe you can buy him some silky speedos!. Just go for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
let him try itWww@Answer-Health@Com