Girls Only? I REALLY need some help and opinions!?!
Question: Girls Only!? I REALLY need some help and opinions!!?
I'm 11 yaers old, and I'm 130 pounds!. I'm also over 5 feet tall!. When I look in the mirror I wanna die!. I avoid looking at myself at all costs!. I feel worthless, I wanna change schools ( because of bullying), I have no friends, I've had thoughts of suicide, i wanna run away to my dream home of NYC!. I actually went on the Greyhound website and bought a bus ticket!. I feel like my parents don't understand me!. I feel like I need to gat away, either taht or dying would be nice!.
P!.S!. Do I need to lose some weight!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
P!.S!. Do I need to lose some weight!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
No, You don't need to lose weight first of all!.
You will grow, and your weight won't!.
You sound actually like I did a few months ago!.
I am 13!.
Middle School Is Brutal!.
I changed schools a few months ago [cause of bullying]!.
I thought I was really fat, too!.
I had absolutely NO friends at all!.
And every single morning that I woke up, I wish I hadn't!.
Girl, don't go where I went!.
I had a gun up to my head!.
Until my mom caught me!. Thankfully!.
Up to that point, I thought my parents didnt love, much less understand me at all!.
Now that my mom got me on anti-depressants, I am perfectly fine!.
I love life!.
And for the first time in my life, I have friends!.
People that I can trust, people that I can have fun with, and people who completely understand me!.!.!.!.
I hope this helps you!.
PLEASE let me know how everything turns out!.
I am basically crying right now, because of those memories!
Like I said, don't go where I was!.
Suicide Is Not The Answer!.
<333!.
Best of Luck!.
~Katie~Www@Answer-Health@Com
You will grow, and your weight won't!.
You sound actually like I did a few months ago!.
I am 13!.
Middle School Is Brutal!.
I changed schools a few months ago [cause of bullying]!.
I thought I was really fat, too!.
I had absolutely NO friends at all!.
And every single morning that I woke up, I wish I hadn't!.
Girl, don't go where I went!.
I had a gun up to my head!.
Until my mom caught me!. Thankfully!.
Up to that point, I thought my parents didnt love, much less understand me at all!.
Now that my mom got me on anti-depressants, I am perfectly fine!.
I love life!.
And for the first time in my life, I have friends!.
People that I can trust, people that I can have fun with, and people who completely understand me!.!.!.!.
I hope this helps you!.
PLEASE let me know how everything turns out!.
I am basically crying right now, because of those memories!
Like I said, don't go where I was!.
Suicide Is Not The Answer!.
<333!.
Best of Luck!.
~Katie~Www@Answer-Health@Com
No you do not need to lose weight!.
Please talk to a school counselor, relative, someone you do feel you can trust!.
National Suicide Hotline 1-800-Suicide (1-800-784-2433)
Look for this book at your library:
Teen Esteem: A Self-Direction Manual for Young Adults by Pat Palmer
Know that your life is going to change!. You have feelings right now as you enter puberty that are normal, the emotions and all, but they will pass!. Your life won't always be this way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please talk to a school counselor, relative, someone you do feel you can trust!.
National Suicide Hotline 1-800-Suicide (1-800-784-2433)
Look for this book at your library:
Teen Esteem: A Self-Direction Manual for Young Adults by Pat Palmer
Know that your life is going to change!. You have feelings right now as you enter puberty that are normal, the emotions and all, but they will pass!. Your life won't always be this way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i had the same problem i was really tall in middle school and kids use to tease me and i would come home from school and cry, but here is the thing your life is a precious gift and jerks will always be jerks but some day you will look in the mirror and realize what a beautiful person you are, you can ask your parents to take you to a doctor they make medication that can help you feel more happy!. It may seem like your parents don't understand but it's never ok to think that giving your life will make them understand you better!. You do not need to lose weight, your BMI (body mass index) which doctors use to calculate if your weight is normal says that you are perfect weight! no joke you can check it on lots of websites!. someday those bullies will see how beautiful u are and they will still be losers!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't sound like you need to lose weight, If you want to get fit and meet friends I would suggest someafter school activities like swimming or dancing!. If you think you are over weight ask your gp to do a body mass index check on you for your height and weight, I am sure you will be in the normal area!. Neither underweight nor overweight!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to talk to someone about how your feeling!. Please don't do anything to hurt yourself!. I tried to commit suicide and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't regret it!. You should also talk to your parents!. Kids can be mean so you have to learn to ignore them!. I also was bullied as a kid but just remember things will get better!. They always do!. Take care of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sweetie, I've been there!. Those were the hardest years of my life!. I used to cry every day, I had no friends, all of that!. Yeah, every day will be a struggle, but as the years go by it will get better every day until you aren't sad anymore!. I promise you that with all my heart!. You're beautiful and deserving of life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ok!.!.!. so I'm not a girl!.!.!. but I'm a dad and if you were my daughter and wanted to leave home or commit suicide - I'd rather have some beat me with a baseball bat!. Let your parents know how unhappy you are and give them a chance to help you and show you how much they love you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok 1!. you are not overweight 2 you are perfect! if people are givin you a hard time, you need to tell some one!. you cant runaway from your problems!. face them ane fight them!. and suicide is not the answer, god loves you!. just stay the same!. and dont kill yourself!. how would that effect your family!. youre gonna be ok!.
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I think that you are going through what every kid your age goes through!. I felt the same way when I was your age!. You do need to find some one you trust to talk to!. Please know that it does get better!. Please try praying!. I will also pray for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nothing is worth giving up your life!. think before you act because you can't apologize to God when your dead!.
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no way you do not need to lose weight! you are so skinny as you are now hun! talk to your parents and do not get on that bus!Www@Answer-Health@Com
no you dont need to lose wieght you need to find self confidence and everthing will get betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
wtf u wna die just bcoz of tht idiot people bullying u!.!. if i were u i wud totally kick their ***!. maybe you're too kind!.!. and bout ur weight yeah u need to lose weight!. and ignore idiot people!.!.be confidentWww@Answer-Health@Com