I told my mom about my period....and...?!
Question: I told her, and was like when i was in the shower i noticed red stuff in my underwear. And she was like, let me see. and i said i washed it. i showed her. and she was like oh, when your older, you get that. and im like do i need to wear something? and she's like yah, a pad. and she was like we'll go to the store later.
she seemed kind of depressed. and right now, she showed me how to use a pantiliner.
what should i do? im scared that's shes scared. :[[
Answers: I told her, and was like when i was in the shower i noticed red stuff in my underwear. And she was like, let me see. and i said i washed it. i showed her. and she was like oh, when your older, you get that. and im like do i need to wear something? and she's like yah, a pad. and she was like we'll go to the store later.
she seemed kind of depressed. and right now, she showed me how to use a pantiliner.
what should i do? im scared that's shes scared. :[[
Don't worry about it. My mom acted the same way when I told her. I think moms just have a hard time realizing that their little girls are growing up.
Hope this helps. : )
& I'm sure she's not scared.
Tell her that you feel like she's worried and you want this to be a happier time.
Shes not scared prabably just awkward as are you. Life goes on. welcome to womanhood.
maybe she was disapointed u washed it out. and she didnt get to be sure that was it.... at least ur lucky my mom was like 5 states away when i started mine, and i said to my dad 'Umm dad i need to call mom' hes like 'why??' im ilke 'can i just call her?' he goes 'tell me why first' i was like 'i think i got my period...' he goes, 'wheres the phone??' lol soo u could tell ur mom in person, i had to call her while she was on a vacation. yah bad timing rite??
She's just afraid your growing up and not to do things you shouldn't to get pregnant. Its part of life and if she raised you right things will be fine.
Ask her if the two of you can sit down and talk. Tell her you are scared and worried about you and her both. This is a time you should be able to ask her questions and expect an answer. If not think of talking to another adult you trust. It is sometimes easier to talk to friends but the information they give may be wrong. Good Luck.
Mom's are crazy like that! Our babies are grown women! It makes us realize how old we are! LOL! it's ok. just keep talking to her and ask questions and reassure her that u are still her little girl. After a couple days she should be ok. It is just a shock that your growing up. Now is the most important time of all to be close to your mom... especially be open and honest... Good luck! Hope this helps!
http://www.coolnurse.com/menstrual.htm
(hit the home page if u want- this site has a lot of cool info for teens about a lot of topics that might be hard to talk about!)
She's not scared or depressed, just emotional. You have reached a milestone and aren't a baby anymore. She's probably thinking "it seems like only yesterday I was changing this girl's diapers, and now she's a woman. Where did the time go?"
Don't worry about it. Nothing's wrong.
shes not scared. i think shes just emotional because its a sign your growing up. x
Please relax. Your mom isn't mad at you, or scared. You are her baby, and growing up. When you start your period, it's the very beginning steps towards becoming a woman. That is hard for parents to accept. It reminds them that you don't need them as much as you used too, and that you will need them less and less. Parents have a way of ignoring the other signs of growing, like breasts developing, and the body shifting and getting the womanly curves. But the period is, please excuse the pun, but a "red flag" that their baby isn't a "baby" anymore, and that they are not as young as they were.
Welcome to womanhood.
dnt worrie im sure ur mom was not scared, i think she was jus abit like " ohh my lil girlz growing up" it is an emotional time 4 them, dw my mom was the same and im sure others peoples moms were aswell.
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Don't be afraid. when i told my mom she was a kinda like wow and she told me how to use it but it's just hard when your mom realizes you're growing up. It's part of life. It's okay, just keep calm and soon your periods will become nothing! Good luck! (:
she's just happy you're growing up.=]
LOL go with the flow your'e becoming a woman.. she is only scared because her baby is growing up, let her know your'e not quite there yet...;)
p.s i actually get chuck bass alot, i dont think so though:P