Women, when you have sex...?!
Question: Does it bother you when your man always wants to wear a condom everytime a man performs sexual intercourse on you, just because he doesn't want to get you pregnant?
Would you have a problem if your man wanted to perform non-penetrative acts?
Answers: Does it bother you when your man always wants to wear a condom everytime a man performs sexual intercourse on you, just because he doesn't want to get you pregnant?
Would you have a problem if your man wanted to perform non-penetrative acts?
I'd say wanting to protect you from unwanted pregnancy made a man responsible and considerate. Even if you're taking an oral contraceptive, it isn't 100% effective against pregnany on its own.
If you don't like using condoms, you could try using alternative forms of contraception. A contraceptive pill or injection, spermicidal gels, a diaphragm or female condom, an internal coil - although again, none are 100% effective alone, so two or more are recommended togther.
Make sure that you both know you're clear of STIs before having unprotected sex: pills, coils and gels may protect you from pregnancy, but not STIs - oral and anal sex are included there.
I have no problem at all with "non-penetrative acts" as you ominously put it. But we're all different and non-vaginal sex isn't on everybody's to-do list. Try suggesting things you'd like to try to your partner, and explore them together.
It feels better without the condom, but that is a big risk to take by just using the pull out method. Pre cu* can get you pregnant, so I don't recommend it unless you want to end up with a baby. Maybe you should get on the pill. And no to your last question.
I love it bareback but get it anyway you can