I am depressed about my boobs?!
Question: I don't know why people say things like "oh your so lucky" when I tell them I have big breasts.
Its horrible, It's hard to have bras that give support and actually aren't like a mechanical contraption.
I just got fitted to day and I thought I was a 32G but turns out I am a 30HH and I am only 13. What size am I going to be when I am 21? a K cup?!?!?
I don't want to be that big.
When I am older I wanted to get breast reduction surgery but my mum said over her dead body.
What can I do to make myself get over this?
I hate my big breasts, they are such a pain.
Answers: I don't know why people say things like "oh your so lucky" when I tell them I have big breasts.
Its horrible, It's hard to have bras that give support and actually aren't like a mechanical contraption.
I just got fitted to day and I thought I was a 32G but turns out I am a 30HH and I am only 13. What size am I going to be when I am 21? a K cup?!?!?
I don't want to be that big.
When I am older I wanted to get breast reduction surgery but my mum said over her dead body.
What can I do to make myself get over this?
I hate my big breasts, they are such a pain.
i thought i had big boobs. mine are a 34G. yes they will probably get bigger and won't stop growing until you get to at least 16.
i have had to live with large breasts for years and they give me back ache if i don't wear bra. i even have to wear a bra in bed to be comfortable.
i know how annoying it is to have big breasts that just get in the way and feel sooooo heavy.
unfortunately at your age unless they get physically uncomfortable there is not alot you can do ( a doctor is unlikely to carry out reduction until you are at least eighteen and have definitely stopped growing).
when you reach eighteen though you may qualify for breast reduction on the NHS if they are either physically painful or causing you psychological damage. both these will have to be judged by your doctor.
otherwise you will have to save thousands of pounds for private surgery.
your mums reaction at the moment is most likely to be because of teh young age you are at the moment. when you are older hopefully she will see how much of a burden they are and will happy for you to go ahead for your happiness.
in the meantime why not see if you can treat yourself to some nice bras for larger busts ( they do exist). try a company called bravissimo (they have a website). they start with back sizes as small as 28 and cupsizes as large as K. they can be quite expensive but it is worth the money to feel comfortable and pretty.
hope this has helped you
wow
Oh lord, that is big!
If you want to get breast reduction surgery, wait till you're over 18...........
UNDERWIRE SPORTS BRA!!!!!!!!!!!
i didnt know boobs got THAT big
if they hurt and make your back ache, it doesn't matter what your mom says, you need to get a reduction so you don't have major back problems when your older
lose weight, those will be the first to go
get your dr. to recommend it. like for back problems and stuff, your mom shouldnt say no then.....
It is none of your mum's business when you are 18, you can do what you like
Sounds like you need to really talk to your mom about taking you to the Dr. to talk about this. This could cause you a lot of pain in your back, and I cannot imagine trying to find a bra. Hope your mom is a little more understanding!
Large breasts such as yours could lead to other problems later in life such as back complaints. Once you're old enough, your mother has no say about your health so you are free to do what you like with your body. Do you shop at a specialist bra store?
dont worry!!!
its a good thing - they just develpoed fast :) i dont htink they will develop muuuuuuuuch more
these comments are compliments i dont know why you girls dont like when you say (even to a gf) nice *** etc...
LADIES ITS A COMPLIMENT!
HH is pretty big, and I'm certain you can get a reduction on the NHS when you're older. Fortunately, your Mum won't have much of a say when you're that age,
Having said all that - think of all the glamour models that pay big bucks to have boobs that size.
You are what you are - and there are going to be a LOT of jealous women with fried eggs reading this. Promise.
If you're 13, first of all I'd advise you to watch your back. If your breasts are that big then pretty soon breast reduction might be the safest option, and you will have no choice but to have it. Just wait till that day and learn to love yourself as you are now.
I never heard of breasts that big on a 13 year old, any pics?
Wow - I do understand you problem - and I'm only an E cup!!! (never thought I'd hear myself say that!)
Sadly you have the potential to continue to goe for ages yet.
I really do think you should go & talk to your doctor - other than the problem with carrying all that weight around and the problems you will suffer all your life with your back (and hips if you aren;t careful), you already seem to have personal visualisation problems.
Your mum maybe can't understand the problem - but your health means more than your mother's opinion.
Take action. You have a right to be heard.
Um wear sweaters or get a sports bra
but there really isn't anything other then not wearing V-necks and low cut shirts
sry
good luck!!
That is amazing. You should get that surgery wether or not your mom agrees because by then you'll be an adult and you can make your own choices.
let's put it this way we always want what we don't have people with big boobs wouold love small ones and vice versa. It's life and there is no real explanation for it. There was a time when i would have killed for bigger boobs and now i'm a 38E and i would kill for a C cup.
Tbh your boobs may not grow too much more, you shouldn't get surgery until your like 18, it's more of a risk than it is worth.
You can get some good bras in bigger sizes try online sites if you just typed it into google you should find some although they won't be cheap your parents would probably help out.
And trust me there are plenty of purks to bigger boobs even if you aren't seeing them at the moment just wait a little while.
Smile.
Oh dear....I think you will get some predictable male responses to this.
Don't listen to them. Listen to your Mom....she has your best interests at heart. If she is also big, ask for her help. There are minimiser bras for sale that could help. Also, try to keep your general weight down, that will be of help.
When you are over 18 you can make a decision about a breast reduction op, and you can explain to your Mom. Try not to worry about it now. Focus of being with friends and getting good grades at school.
I empathise with you and send good wishes.
WOW! I wasn't aware there was such a size. I can understand your discomfort. It's got to be very hard on the rest of your body. I have a friend who is heavily endowed and she has a lot of back problems. If your parents are not up to allowing you breast reduction at this time, you might want to check with a fitness center. Maybe they can give you some exercises to strengthen your back and shoulder muscles. When you are 18, you can make the decision for breast reduction.
odey thats big this is an idea loose weigth beacuase breast are 90% fat so if you loose weigth you loose most of ur breast
oh wow that is toooo big!Are you over weight? because if you are try losing the weight and your boobs will reduce loads, what dress size are you? it aint your mums decsision whether you have a breast reduction when your 18 so go for it but untill then you can get bras that reduce the size of your breasts and keep those puppies underwire or they will sag loads if they havent already xxx
in that case u can have surgery and have it smaller i know what u mean bc i have big boobs too that's big sorry we had to be the unlucky ones ( who they claim lucky )
for the moment make sure your wear 'very' supportive and comfortable bra's.
if you get health problems later, like any pains or aches/ problems with your posture you can speak to your doctors about when you'd consider going for surgery. im sure your mum will be understanding of it when your older and you've show her that you're mature. when you're around18, 21.....
be confident about your body, you could also wear minimisers if you wish to and cleavage bras with wider straps do look best on the very large sizes-trust me. it should also give you a better and more confortable posture.
best of luck with everything. im sure that if 'people' do tell you that your lucky you're probably not that bad...
here is a linger and clothing link for you, i hope it helps.
http://www.bravissimo.com/
Hayley H has some very good information.
I totally get what you are saying i think the reduction surgery should be your choice your the one that has to try and stand up straight with back pain and is gonna have to put up with people staring at them etc, you cannot get over this just try and be happy until you are old enough to get the surgery, be happy and confident and don't think about how big they are going to end up lol, think, hey some people get gel crap put in to have breasts like mine! lol there you go, chin up hun x
maybe the gym could help you. i watched a program a women when to a gym to help loose some size.
i think it worked ask the doctor or a fitness instructor - your doctor should be able to advise you.
Are you over weight? If so, loosing weight will help some. I and my daughters are the same way. My youngest if 4'10" tall and 15 - she a 36DD. Prior to my breast reduction I was a 38F, now I am 38D. Believe it or not there are days when I wish I had not done it. Two years ago I had had enough with the back pain/spams and looking like a cartoon character. If I were taller it would have been different. Right now you are too young for the surgery - I don't think a doctor would agree to it since you are not done developing. Also it is not recommended prior to having children since your breast size will change with every pregnancy. Always be sure to wear the correct size and one with support. Bali 's make supportive bras for us larger girls. Please do not let this hinder your love for who you are. God made us all special. Make the best of it. I am sure you are beautiful and yes, many women pay big money to have large breasts. Do not wear over sized shirts to hide your gift - and ignore those obnoxious, jealous girls. I was always embarrassed when I was a teen. I have raised my daughters to be proud and to dress with class. I am sure my girls would chat with you if you would like to. My youngest daughter has a real good sense of humor about her size.
Firstly, you're NOT abnormal.
My friend and step sister have big boobs. My step sister is only 5ft and she had G boobs and so does my friend, who is even more small below 5ft.
Most likelyhood is you won't grow much bigger, and it is your decision whether or not to have breast reduction surgeory. It is much different from having them enlarged so there should not be a problem.
You have to love yourself though, just find way to fit around your breasts do not end up hating yourself over it.
Plus do not get too depressed over your bra size, as I guarantee if you walked into another shop and got measured they would measure you differently. Always give or take a cup size.
I was messured only a week ago for them to say I was a 32DD, I couldnt BREATHE when i tried on a 32, and my boobs were a D. They measured me all wrong. So do not take their word!
Good luck :-)
thats unusual. talk to your doctor about it. my friend had boobs like yours but she was only 9. her doctor made her wear a breast minimizer and now, at age 15, shes a D cup. which is alot smaller then what she used to be. you should really talk to your doctor about it.
Sports bra's are good to hold more in.
Good luck.
:')
shut up your gross