When will sex with my partner?!
Question: okay so i already asked but i am not sure i worded my question right.
me and my boyfriend have been quite serious for quite a while now.
about 3 weeks ago, we both lost our virginity to each other. and as everyone knows it always hurts your first time.
okay and last night was our second time having sex.
yess it felt amazing but not til the very end. and a friend of mine told me thatt he more often i have sex the better it will start to feel. i was just wonderin about how long will it take before i start having like major orgasms and what nott.
: ) lol thnxx.
Answers: okay so i already asked but i am not sure i worded my question right.
me and my boyfriend have been quite serious for quite a while now.
about 3 weeks ago, we both lost our virginity to each other. and as everyone knows it always hurts your first time.
okay and last night was our second time having sex.
yess it felt amazing but not til the very end. and a friend of mine told me thatt he more often i have sex the better it will start to feel. i was just wonderin about how long will it take before i start having like major orgasms and what nott.
: ) lol thnxx.
lots of foreplay and i do not know about your breasts or nipples but most of them are very sensitive so hav him suck them for a while all guys love brerats even if they wont admit it i know
while u r having sex rub your clitoris and stuff or hav him eat you out first and always talk tell him what you want make beg for him to make love to you
hope it helps
Every woman is different. I didn't experience any pain my first time.
having sec is not about qualtiy but enjoying the company of ur loved one. if you love eachother, you will both try your best to enjoy the eachother's company and this bond you two are sharing.
he might be trying to get more sex from you, if he worded it that vaguely. maybe he meant that it wil lget better once you have more expereience and are more comfortable with eachother.
how lnog it wil ltake, depends whenever you are both comfortable with eachother and are experience enough. but enjoy the rollercoaster for the ride, not jsut the big fat 100 mile an hour hill coming up ahead...lol. gl!
You get better orgasms from lots of foreplay.
That way he doesn't get his jollies before you get yours. It takes women longer to get to an orgasm than it takes men to.
It's not that it'll feel better, it's that you won't hurt as bad or as much. The more you have sex, the more your vagina expands so his penis will fit in a heck of a lot easier.
Well my cousin told me the other day that sex doesn't really feel "amazing" until you're grown and fully developed. She started having sex when she was like 16 and she's 28 now. She's not the type to lie or shelter someone, she's a very out spoken person. So, I believe her. Sex is going to keep being painfully until you're fully developed and you're body and handle sexual intercourse. Oral sex and digital (fingering) sex is different though. Oral sex...just doesn't hurt lol. && digital sex may hurt a little depeneding on how aggressive your boyfriend is.
Sex isn't just about orgasms...many people have sex and enjoy it yet never orgasm. And for others, the whole point of sex is to reach climax...it varies from person to person.
If you are not sure what feels good for you, you could have sex every day for the rest of your life and never reach orgasm. It's not like, okay, after the 10th time you have sex you'll get off...too bad it doesn't work like that! Women rarely orgasm from penetrative sex and often rely on foreplay or additional clitoral stimulation during sex. My suggestion is to find what works for you and then ask (or show) your partner what you like. Make sure you and your partner know that neither of you are "failures" if you do not orgasm through penetrative sex...it just means you need to find what you like and then do it!
In the mean time, also understand that most women have difficulty reaching orgasm when they are younger and/or inexperienced. A lot of this has to do with body image, confidence, nerves, and not enough time exploring their sexuality. If you can't orgasm, don't worry...the secret is touching the right places AND relaxing. Always make sure you are using a reliable form of birth control...that will really help you relax a bit!
It's been said that men hit their sexual peak in their early 20's while women don't until their mid 30's... go figure why older women prefer younger guys haha (so I've heard- I won't know for many years haha)
every person is different.you have one you may not.it depends on how he stimulates you sexually.he may never fully do this to your body satisfied.or maybe he will some day.but if your in love as you say,what does it matter what others say onto you,but what you feel in your heart and soul being.