Boyfriend worried about fingering?!
Question: He's fingered me a few times, but he said he doesn't want to too much because he is afraid of getting me pregnant or scratching me or any sort of infection. He washes his hands all the time before he does it, which is annoying but I don't mind that much...How do I prove to him that he's crazy about the pregnancy ****??? I know scratching is a risk and infection is, too. But if he washes and keeps his nails short...what's the problem??
Answers: He's fingered me a few times, but he said he doesn't want to too much because he is afraid of getting me pregnant or scratching me or any sort of infection. He washes his hands all the time before he does it, which is annoying but I don't mind that much...How do I prove to him that he's crazy about the pregnancy ****??? I know scratching is a risk and infection is, too. But if he washes and keeps his nails short...what's the problem??
okay the only way he'll get you preg is if he touches himself and then fingers you!
but it's true my BF scratch me once and my gyno told me to be very careful with the tampon (she thought it was cuz of a tampon LOL) because it's easy to get infections down there when cut or any open sore.
you can tell him you only get preg through intercourse.
You can't get pregnant from a finger..lol unless there is sperm on it..be happy he washes his hands..that is great for your health and means he cares.
maybe he just doesn't want to and is trying to get out of it
mutual masterbaition could still result in s.t.d's either that or hes paranoid or if its really bad he doesnt love you and is cheating on you with the girl that sits next to you in your english class.
I'd be glad to do it.
Sit him down and have him watch one of those birth tapes that Discovery and Learning channel alway show. Unless he's a magician, sperm won't come out of his fingers. Tell him to read a book or 12.
hmmm... sounds like he doesnt enjoy fingering you and is probably afraid to tell you. he doesnt want to upset you. you mentioned he washes right before he does it, which is annoying (red flag), is afraid of getting you pregnant, which is crazy (red flag) and im guessing he washes vigorously right after as well right? you didnt mention this but its a good guess.
let me ask you? does he give you oral sex? he probably doesnt.
DUMP HIM. The guys a pillock who does not know what he's doing. Besides - he's doing it wrong. It's not all about sticking his fingers inside your vagina. He'd (and you) would be better off carressing your clitoral hood.