Man problems pleas help!!!!!!?!

Man problems pleas help!!!!!!?

I know this guy for about 6 months now, we work together. When our coworkers have partys we kind of hook up not sexually!!! just mess around. But come monday morning we dont speak one word why??? is he just shy like me??? he is 29 im 22 . He keeps telling me we should go out hang out , but he never says when!!! or where! only one time he did @ 10pm! he was drunk ok im not that desparate! is he just messing with my head or what ???? did i mention he just got out of a 5 yr relationship??should i just forget about him??? or does he actually like me??? =(

Toss this fish back in the sea, dear. It's not a keeper. He's not shy, he's 29 and dangling the bait to see if you will bite. Showing up at your place at 10pm, drunk, was an insult to you, and told you exactly how he feels and what he thinks of you. He's messing with your head alright, and that's not all he'd like to mess with. Pull in your hooks and toss this one back. You said it yourself, you aren't that desparate. You also are worth treating better. If he hasn't figured out how to treat a decent girl by now, he's not likely to. If you start off a relationship demanding to be treated with respect, it helps screen out the losers. If they can't treat you with the respect you deserve from the start, they won't treat you better later. Toss him back girl, toss him back.