I might run away. Any help?!
Question: I might run away!. Any help!?
My mom hits and constantly yells at me!. My dad doesn't care!.
One time my mom threw a can at me and dragged me down the stairs by my hair when I didn't dry a dish!. I didn't even yell at her or anything!. And she just started cursing me out because my kitten jumped out of my lap on my couch and fell!. She threatened to hit me and stuff!. I might just leave because tonight is homecoming but I don't want to have to leave my pets!. My dad kicked my mom out of the house when she dragged me down the stairs that day!. But she came back a day later and everything went back to normal!. She constantly is insulting me until the point now where I'm becoming paranoid about my weight, looks, and stuff!. I'm 14 and she doesn't let me do anything and if I'm a few minutes late from something, she yells at me and doesn't talk to me for a few hours!. I don't want to be with her anymore!. She used to hit me when I was younger too, she'd hit my with spatulas and stuff like that!. One time, she strangled my sister!. My dad still doesn't do anything!. And now I feel useless, ugly, and unwanted!. Can someone please help me out!? Also, I don't want to call CPS because I don't want to have to leave my pets or dad because even though he doesn't do anything and yells at me a lot, I still remember when I was young and he cared a lot about me!. Help!? Please!? I'd desperate for help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
One time my mom threw a can at me and dragged me down the stairs by my hair when I didn't dry a dish!. I didn't even yell at her or anything!. And she just started cursing me out because my kitten jumped out of my lap on my couch and fell!. She threatened to hit me and stuff!. I might just leave because tonight is homecoming but I don't want to have to leave my pets!. My dad kicked my mom out of the house when she dragged me down the stairs that day!. But she came back a day later and everything went back to normal!. She constantly is insulting me until the point now where I'm becoming paranoid about my weight, looks, and stuff!. I'm 14 and she doesn't let me do anything and if I'm a few minutes late from something, she yells at me and doesn't talk to me for a few hours!. I don't want to be with her anymore!. She used to hit me when I was younger too, she'd hit my with spatulas and stuff like that!. One time, she strangled my sister!. My dad still doesn't do anything!. And now I feel useless, ugly, and unwanted!. Can someone please help me out!? Also, I don't want to call CPS because I don't want to have to leave my pets or dad because even though he doesn't do anything and yells at me a lot, I still remember when I was young and he cared a lot about me!. Help!? Please!? I'd desperate for help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
DO NOT RUN AWAY!. I cannot stress that enough!. It will not solve this problem, it will only exchange them for a different one!.
First of all, let me say I will pray for you and I can't believe what it feels like to go through something like this!. And I know you probably don't want to hear this, but you do have to tell someone!. You don't have to tell the cops right away or anything, but you do have to tell someone, like a teacher or another relative or someone that your mother is hitting you!. Dragging you by your hair down the stairs is not appropriate discipline at all!. It sounds like your mother needs some serious counseling and help!.
I can imagine you're scared about leaving your Dad and your pets, but you can't let yourself be treated like this!. "Abuse" is a word that's often tossed around casually in today's society and a word that I don't often like to use for that reason, but in this case, you are being abused!. You need to tell someone, someone who may be able to help with family counseling!. Your Dad sounds like he needs to be more involved with you!. It sounds like he's just given up!. I know you love him, maybe you can talk to him gently about this!.
Lastly, you are not ugly, you are not worthless, you are not an idiot!. You have been belittled that way, but it isn't true!. God made you, and God don't make junk!. It's not your fault that other people treat His creation that way!. Just because other people are treating you horribly doesn't mean you are what they say you are!. Because you're not!. And you don't deserve to be treated this way!.
Talk to someone!. You asked the question here, so now you need to take the step of talking to someone personal who you are close to!. This behavior can't continue for you!. You need to take this step!.
God bless, and I'll be praying for you!.
-RachelWww@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, let me say I will pray for you and I can't believe what it feels like to go through something like this!. And I know you probably don't want to hear this, but you do have to tell someone!. You don't have to tell the cops right away or anything, but you do have to tell someone, like a teacher or another relative or someone that your mother is hitting you!. Dragging you by your hair down the stairs is not appropriate discipline at all!. It sounds like your mother needs some serious counseling and help!.
I can imagine you're scared about leaving your Dad and your pets, but you can't let yourself be treated like this!. "Abuse" is a word that's often tossed around casually in today's society and a word that I don't often like to use for that reason, but in this case, you are being abused!. You need to tell someone, someone who may be able to help with family counseling!. Your Dad sounds like he needs to be more involved with you!. It sounds like he's just given up!. I know you love him, maybe you can talk to him gently about this!.
Lastly, you are not ugly, you are not worthless, you are not an idiot!. You have been belittled that way, but it isn't true!. God made you, and God don't make junk!. It's not your fault that other people treat His creation that way!. Just because other people are treating you horribly doesn't mean you are what they say you are!. Because you're not!. And you don't deserve to be treated this way!.
Talk to someone!. You asked the question here, so now you need to take the step of talking to someone personal who you are close to!. This behavior can't continue for you!. You need to take this step!.
God bless, and I'll be praying for you!.
-RachelWww@Answer-Health@Com
If that is what you want to do, make sure that you have somewhere to stay if you do, then you need to tell somebody!.
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You need to tell someone!. Think about it: your mom is just threatening you now and hitting you!. What if it gets worse in a few years!? If she's strangling your sister, then you need to call someone!. If you call someone, they can help your parents!. I would suggest this option very strongly, but maybe if you talked with your parents about how you feel when they abuse you, they can help see your point of view, and you can see theirs!. Are your parents stressed out!? This could be a cause, but I would suggest very strongly calling someone!. I don't think your parents are so bad they would take you away from your family, I think they would just help your parents!. You wouldn't have to run away or go to a foster home, you would be able to stay with your parents!. I really wish you the best luck, and I really hope everything works out with you and your parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com