If someone were to ask you something that is very painful for you....?!


Question: If someone were to ask you something that is very painful for you!.!.!.!.!?
They have heard through the grapevine!.!.!.But you do not want to lie either!. Since you do not want to talk about it but do not want to be rude either!.!.!.Is is alright to just say!.!."I'd rather not talk about that anymore!?"!.!.!.Some people are extremly NOSY!.!.!.!.i cannot believe people!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Yeah thats fine!.!.!.!.when people ask me hard questions I just say "I don't really want to talk about that right now can we talk about something else!?" it's not that rude and they should get the hint!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

just say something alng the lines of that!. i know it is hard that people are nosy but some of them are just trying to comfort u but then there are others that just wanna get the scoop
i hope everything gets better for you with whatever is hurting you
definately just tell them that u cant talk about it and that it is too hard
just be nice, theyll understand :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well you have to consider if the person is really just trying to be there for you!. Sometimes a listening ear is all the help you need!. On the other hand, your private and personal business is just that, YOUR private and personal business!. So your best bet is what you basically said, be polite and say you'd rather not discuss it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to weigh the outcome of your explanations or answers to see if this is really something you wish to discuss!. If by explanation, more questions will be asked, your best bet is just to keep it to yourself!. Rumors go through a quick life cycle - when it could not gets fed by the source, it dies!.
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dear abby answered that years ago!. her answer has worked for me a lot of times!. ask th em "why do you want to know"!. most times people will change the subject when you call them out on being nosy!. hope this helps of course you can always just tell them it's none of their f$%#ing business!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

plain old non of anyones business

just say that its really not something that needs to be discussed now or ever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That would be a very appropriate response!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Be honest with them!. Either tell them what you just said, or tell them it is too painful to talk about and you hope they understand!. If there real concern is you then they would not be offended!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would say, if you forgive me for not answering I will forgive you for having asked!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with Baby Gyrl, i would say that same too, as long as its FACT u don't want to talk about it!.!. so its not really rudeWww@Answer-Health@Com

just say that you don't feel comfortable with the subjectWww@Answer-Health@Com

That was random!. And your question is!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

NOW you've got us all wondering what your deep dark secrets are!! Hee hee hee!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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