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Question: Need help!.!.!.!?
I'm petrified of dark windows!.!.!. and when I say that, I mean if there is a dark window near me I break down, start crying and have to find somewhere where there is no chance of seeing the window!. Now, the thing is!.!.!. I am at home, all alone- my german shepherd cant keep me safe, lol, he's with my dad!.!.!., at two in the morning, and the downstairs window is open!. I have to somehow close it!.!.!. Or risk out Tv comp etc being stolen!.!.!.

How!? How can I do it!? I tried five minutes ago!.!.!. but halfway there I ran away!. Any advice on how to do it is much appreciated!.

(Yes, I realise that I am asking how to close a window!.!.!. But imagine you had to pick up a spider, or walk down a dark alleyway, etc!.!.!. you'd be scared too!.)

Help me, please!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You are suffering from a type of paranoia called agoraphobia!. It means that you are not really scared of the window itself but the fear of not being able to see out of it!. A simple solution would be to insure you close your windows before dark and keep blinds over them!. Or get some nice bright floodlights outside of your house!. Or just simply turn off the lights inside your house so that it is darker inside than it is outside therefor making your windows appear to not bee so dark!. Otherwise you could go to a doc and get some meds that make you forget about windows!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My suggestion is flash light, some music, and a phone!.

If you put on a song you like, there is less chance you imagine spooky noises and just in case, dial up a friend who understands your problem and have them talk you through it!

Believe me, I know illogical fears are the worst!. I am absolutely petrified around sour milk!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ouch!
this is bad!.
have you seen a docter!?
if you havent i think you should!.
why dont you jush go down and close the window, and if you cry just cry then run upstairs afetr you are done;
whatever happens its going to be closed after isnt it!?
and can i just ask!.!.
why have you opened it if you cant close it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think the risk of your computer/tv being stolen is the least of your worries, what if someone got in and attacked you!?!?!? Thats what youve got to think of, just put all the lights on and go and close the window!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Look upon it as a challenge and when you`ve done!.!.!. then you are the winner! Dont be beaten by a flaming window!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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