Question for girls or guys?!

Question for girls or guys?

I've been dating the same girl for 5 years now and we've had sex thousands of times. Each time its relatively the same routine with a couple minor changes here and there. My question though, is how to I spice it up so I'm still interested. I'm more of a sexual person than she is so the real kinky stuff that I wouldnt mind doing she's not up for. Any suggestions on what I could do? I've practically done everything (i.e. candles, flowers, mood lighting)

2 weeks ago
I've suggested trying it in a public place but she doesnt want to be seen by anyone and doesnt want to risk it at all. I live right by the river and I figured that would be perfect place but she wasnt down for it. We've tried it in the shower but shes not flexible enough to do it. Like I said I feel like I've tried everything. Could it be that I'm more of a sexual person than she is? Do you think i should think about other options or should I stick with the medioaker sex life?

Try different locations. In the shower, the kitchen, the park, a car, drive-in......You could use oils, and toys. Blind fold her and feed her sensuous foods (chocolate covered strawberries, melon, whipped cream), be erotic with it. Be spontaneous. After she tries a few different things, she might get into a little more and be willing to try other stuff. Good Luck!