How to get my fiancee to take a drug test?!
Question: How to get my fiancee to take a drug test?
Answers:
I smell big red flags, here. Only true addicts refuse such requests, claiming it "invades" their privacy. If Dawn has nothing to hide...she would freely comply with peeing into a cup. If Dawn still thinks privacy is a matter of keeping certain things secret - I would immediately uncheck the "engaged" box in your life. You cannot make anybody do anything...you can only protect yourself and your daughter, by putting the wedding on temporary or permanent HOLD.
Recovering addict myself. I KNOW the mentality....
Tell her if she loves you, she'll understand how important to you this is, and that you love your daughter to bits, and if she doesn't take the drug test you may never see her again. If she refuses, she is not the right one for you. Nothing is better than the happiness of a loved one, even privacy. Good luck.
Make her