Please help:S--how does it feel 2 go 2 the gym and wht i would expect?!
Question: im realy fat,:( i always wanted to go to the gym and dnt know how it feels:( i just get scared when i think about going, because i think people will laugh :( , i realy want to look nice now becasuse i want to have a girlfriend, please can anyone tell me how it feels to go 2 the gym and what i would expect???:S
Answers: im realy fat,:( i always wanted to go to the gym and dnt know how it feels:( i just get scared when i think about going, because i think people will laugh :( , i realy want to look nice now becasuse i want to have a girlfriend, please can anyone tell me how it feels to go 2 the gym and what i would expect???:S
Hi there I answered you last question, glad I made you feel better!
The gym has people of every size, shape and height. You'll see really buff guys but you'll see really huge ones too there's no odd one out.
Remember what everyone has in common? Everyone goes to the gym to get fitter! No one is there because they are 100% satisified!
The thing with gyms I've noticed is that everyone associates, probably unbeknown to them, it with gym class at school. Take me for instance. I was always picked last at sports because I was really short and puny! I felt terrible! I was dreading going to the gym because I thought it would be just the same! It wasn't at all people were really nice and took care of me there is a nice sense of community which helps fulfil everyone's needs if you go to the right one.
So it wasn;t bad. Everyone is mature there no one will point a finger and laugh, gang up on you at the locker room or throw a ball at you. You might get the odd smirk but that could happen on the street anyway so don't let anyone hold you down! Chances are you'll met some people who are just like you and gradually get an interest in health and exercise which you'll share with lots of members = lots of friends XDDDDD
Depending upon which gym you go to it is usually a really nice place and tranquil which sets people in the frame of mind for working out. A lot of people tend to keep themselves to themseleves will actually working out but when they get off of the machine they start socialing. You can make the experience as personal or impersonal as you'd like.
And it's a great chance to talk to some girls as well. Especially if they do similar workouts.
Good luck ^^
just remember, everybody is there for the same reason - to get in shape. don't be intimidated by others. just go and do your thing and in time you will feel comfortable going.