What is this syndrome called?!
Question: What is this syndrome called?
Answers:
Stockholm Syndrome is the condition of falling in love with your kidnapper, NOT your savior.
Hero Worship is the closest that comes to what you are describing.
The Florence Nightingale Effect is when a savior falls in love with the person they saved. So like a doctor falling in love with their patient. That's the opposite of what you listed, but it's about as close as it gets.
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stockholm syndrome.
my bad. i tire after reading the question and the first sentence. so many questions. so little time.