I have been in some pretty crap relationships in the past?!

Question: I have been in some pretty crap relationships in the past?

and then found someone who is caring,the only thing is i have had a health scare,recently and he has turned a bit funny ,i am stressed about it, but when i get stressed he turns quite nasty at times with me,smashing plates,and pushing me whereas he never done that before,i do start on him at times when i am stressed but i didnt expect him to do that, he is the only person i can really depend on,so i know that,my family and so called friends wouldnt be there for me as they have their own problems, the health scare ,cancer,has not helped,any ideas!

Answers:

Its his reaction to your health scare.
Not a good one mind you. If he keeps this up
time to leave. He is not showing you any compassion.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer & my husband yelled at me
we are no longer together.

Breast Cancer Survivor

You have TWO problems, You MUST learn to separate the two.

Cancer is one thing. See your doctor. express these concerns to him. Most cancer doctors know other doctors that can help you with the depression, as well.

The fact you friend gets physically violent is another problem. This action is TOTALLY unacceptable. It IS abuse, and it WILL get worse. You need to start depending on your own family, and DUMP THIS JERK before he seriously hurts you.

tright now, the danger from HIM is more urgent than the danger from the cancer! DO NOT put up with this any more,. GET RID OF HIM!

speak to him tell him how much you love and care for him if he still does the same you should leave him
you could get anyone someone like that wouldnt deserve a person like you if he cared about you he wouldnt do that

This is a relationship or mental health question, not a cancer related question.

fight it, face, dont turn your back to your fears

No matter how 'caring' he is - the second he becomes violent for ANY reason - run, don't walk from the relationship.

Don't let this behavior continue... you can't change him, so the only answer is to move on.

You're much better than that, and you deserve full respect from any man.

Please leave him, now.

Your cancer is another issue. It's extremely tough, but hang in there and trust that there are others who can help you cope with the cancer. There are multitudes of support groups that can help you find the strength to carry on and beat the disease. I believe that an abusive relationship can add to the stress that your body is already experiencing.

My most positive thoughts are going your way. Hang in there!

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