Okay freaking out!! I gave this guy a bj and the next morning HELLO cold sore.. !

Okay freaking out!! I gave this guy a bj and the next morning HELLO cold sore.. Does he have it???

I was drinking all night and had no sleep but anyways I gave this guy a bj and didn't have anything on my lip.. I didn't see anything on him either.. I didn't feel tingly or anything like that. When I woke up I still didn't really feel or see anything it was later that day that I felt it and saw it forming. Couldn't do anything about it thou.. too bad. So question is did he give it to me.. or did I give it to him even though there was no symptoms when I went down on him. And yes it was a very thurough bj and make out session... Oh and I have gotten it before, is there anyway that he could have gotten it from me even with no symptoms..

cold sores are caused by a form of herpes virus that lives in the nervous system, you get it when you have chicken pox as a child. It take several days for a viral load to build up enough to cause the outbreak, but for all that time you can transmit the virus. without any symptoms. The same is true of genital herpes, and if you performed oral sex the odds are good that you gave it to him, and the oral herpes will take hold in the genital region and cause genital herpes. You owe it to him to tell him, so he can watch for symptoms and get treatment. There is no fault here, it is simply one of the risks we take as a result of a childhood illness.