STD not showing in test...is this possible...Did he cheat?!
Question:
STD not showing in test...is this possible...Did he cheat?
Im 41 weeks pregnant. When I was 36 weeks, I was tested for all infections(negative) as well when I first discovered I was pregnant. My bf just came to me and told me that he cheated on me in Sept...and may have contracted something bc he's experiencing a non-burning discharge. His dr said it maybe gonnhrea or chlaymdia(both spelled wrong). And hes concerned cause we has sex last week. QUESTION!!--If he cheated in Sept..and I had nothing, and he claims he hasnt cheated since, hows it possible that I may have something now. I thought all STds(except AIDS) show up then. And IF I have something since I was 36 weeks.....that means he cheated..Correct? And is it possible for a male to have discharge and it not be an STi or STD?
Answers:
it is possible for a male to have a discharge and not have an infection. Until he is tested and finds out why he has this discharge, you won't know. Make sure he gets tested and gets a definitive diagnosis. Then, notify your ob-gyn doc, and get tested again. That he cheated on you, is by his own admission, a fact. But I assume the child is his? If that is so, you have a really tough decision to make. Do you kick him out, or do you forgive him and try to move on. Only you can answer that one.