Question about relationships and herpes?!
Question: Question about relationships and herpes!?
For people with herpes: Do you feel if you have herpes and are dating someone who doesn't have herpes that you should be with them just because they are willing to be with you when others might not!?
For people without herpes: Do you feel that people with herpes should take what they can get!? If they meet someone who doesn't have the virus, but is still willing to date them, that infected person should stick it out with the other because of the possible challenge of finding another person willing to date them!?
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For people without herpes: Do you feel that people with herpes should take what they can get!? If they meet someone who doesn't have the virus, but is still willing to date them, that infected person should stick it out with the other because of the possible challenge of finding another person willing to date them!?
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Answers:
No, I think I deserve someone who is right for me and I would never stay with someone just because they accept me with herpes - there are plenty of better people who will accept me with herpes!. I've never been rejected becasue of it, most people are cool with it!. After all, it is only like oral cold sores!.
I don't think I should take what I can get!. I deserve far more than that!. Anyone who thinks that isn't worth my time anyway!. It isn't hard to find men that can see past it!. The people on yahoo answers who say it is just gross are either about 12 or haven't been put in a situation where they like someone who happens to have herpes!. It is fine to be a ***** in a hypothetical situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think I should take what I can get!. I deserve far more than that!. Anyone who thinks that isn't worth my time anyway!. It isn't hard to find men that can see past it!. The people on yahoo answers who say it is just gross are either about 12 or haven't been put in a situation where they like someone who happens to have herpes!. It is fine to be a ***** in a hypothetical situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think it's a fair question to either!. I have herpes and I don't feel that I should have to date people only with herpes!. And I don't feel that I should just stay with someone because they were willing to date me!. It's like asking if someone is willing to date someone with diabetes!. Unlike herpes, diabetes is life threatening, where as herpes is more of an inconvenience for most!.
I don't think herpes itself is the end all deal breaker!. It's very shallow to think that a person with herpes which could just be cold sores deserves less than one with out herpes!. If a person truly likes you for who you are, herpes won't get in the way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think herpes itself is the end all deal breaker!. It's very shallow to think that a person with herpes which could just be cold sores deserves less than one with out herpes!. If a person truly likes you for who you are, herpes won't get in the way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you really need to tell the person and be upfront from the beginning, i think its kind of unfair to make someone fall for you then let them know you have it!. Obviously not telling them you have it would be completley wrong but if your upfront about it and the other person is cool with it then go ahead!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it may just be me but i am never going to go out with someone with herpes i don't care if their cool or not i'm not trying to have than **** all over my grill or worse all over my junk I don't think soWww@Answer-Health@Com
i dont have herpes!.!. but would I DATE man with herpes!? either way with me!.!.if i liked him and been with him for awhile!.!. sure why not!? as long as he takes medications and wear condoms hes good in my book!. i dont find genital herpes as a promiscious kind of std!.!. atlhough it is a std, i dont find as something a person had got bc they sleep around!.!. its bc tha majority of people have cold sores on their mouth!.!.and had oral sex!.!.passin it on!.!. its a shame when people dont tell people, thats my only problem!.!. !
im thinkin about the guy i like right now who i plan on dating!.!. if he had herpes!.!. and sex was brought up down the line!.!. if he was honest and tells me upfront about it!.!. i dunno but i still couldnt resist him!.!.he is such a great guy!.!.good friend too!.!. but ya i couldnt resist him with herpes or not !.!.ill still want him to rock my world lol :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
im thinkin about the guy i like right now who i plan on dating!.!. if he had herpes!.!. and sex was brought up down the line!.!. if he was honest and tells me upfront about it!.!. i dunno but i still couldnt resist him!.!.he is such a great guy!.!.good friend too!.!. but ya i couldnt resist him with herpes or not !.!.ill still want him to rock my world lol :)Www@Answer-Health@Com