I just found out that my fiance' is HIV+?!


Question: I just found out that my fiance' is HIV+!?
I found out that the man that I've been living with and is in love with it HIV+ he was just as shocked and I was when we both went and got tested!. Thank God I tested negative two times now, six months in between tests!. We love each other and have been committed to one another for the past three years!. But things are starting to change for me, we are an older couple and sex is out and even before we found this out his ability to perform was practically non existent, I feel there is nothing left he was and still is the love of my life but I feel so cheated!. He says nothing but I can sense he sees the disillusionment thats come over me, what do I do, this is our home together, I know we need to talk but I don't know how to talk about this with him or what to say!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
There are lots of support groups that could help you, some couples groups, and of course, couples therapy!. Don't give up, and remember, your fiance probably had no idea the person he was sleeping with was positive either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is serious!. It should be ex-fiance if you ask me!.

You are still not out of the water with the HIV!. Did you have sex between the HIV tests!? If you did, you are not safe yet!.

Be supportive but look out for yourself too!. It is not like cancer because the cancer would not kill you too!.

Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com

This is serious!. You need to think about what you want to do!. Talk to him!. I understand that you're committed and that's a good thing!. But you also have to take his feelings into consideration as well!.This has to be taking a toll on him, so try to be understanding!. Go to this website http://unworkplace!.unaids!.org/UNAIDS/bas!.!.!. It has helpful hints and ways to deal with a person who is HIV+!. Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

be honest after all you have a life to!. and its your right to want a normal life!. with sex as well!. my honest opion!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Read this site is about couple like with your issue!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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