Ive got hiv. is there a large chance il pass it to my gf if????!
Question: ive got hiv. is there a large chance il pass it to my gf if we try having unprotected sex just once cos we want a baby
Answers: ive got hiv. is there a large chance il pass it to my gf if we try having unprotected sex just once cos we want a baby
I also have HIV and to be honest it only took the 1 time of unprotected sex for me to get infected. The disease itself is hard to contract and as my doctor told me "you have to be very lucky to catch it" if that makes sense??? If you want children you still can but instead of having unsafe sex you can get your sperm washed. As far as i know you will have to pay to have it done. If you look on any HIV web sites or contact your general health clinic they can give you lots more advice than i can.
If you did have unprotected sex and got your partner pregnant there is a 99% chance that the baby will also be infected and im sure after your own personal experience you wouldnt wish it on anyone else?
I really want children and i found a surrogate mother (my friend) but due to cancer treatment i had in the past i was told it was 50/50 i would be able to have kids, Then With letting my CD4 drop to 10 ive now been told that there is only a 1% chance i will be fertile? Im really devastated and to top it all my bf said he really doesnt want children so as you can see im stuck in limbo.
Getting back to the point though i think i may of infected my bf (his ex was poz)so not sure who gave him it and to this day i still cannot forgive myself, If you infected your girlfriend never mind a child i think it would cause you a lot of mental health problems in the future.
Please speak to a professional about sperm washing as i think it would be the safest and best option.
If you need anymore advice or a shoulder please dont hesitate to message me.
yeah! u can't have unprotected sex! sad but true! do not put her at risk!!
ummmmm yes! and if she concieves a baby, then theres a very large chance the baby would have it as welll.............................
Yes, and if you did get her pregnant, your baby will possibly get HIV.
I could be wrong here but I've heard there is a slim chance of passing it on with vaginal sex.
I think you need to speak to the doctor, there are probably other ways.
Does your girlfriend know you have HIV? I hope so.
Are you out of your mind ?
Talk to a doctor not us.
Think of the risk to your partner.
TALK TO A DOCTOR !!!!!!!!!!!
not only a huge chance that you will pass it to her, an even larger chance that the baby will be HIV positive. Stop being so damned selfish and give up the idea of procreating. Adopt a child, there are thousands needing homes.
yes ther e is a huge chance! dont do it!
yes there is and there is a good chance your child will be born with Aids to.
if you want to start a family contact your Doctor and talk with him about it, there are ways that you can cut out all the risks to mother and child.
do you really want to risk inflicting another person with that illness, could you live with your self if you did ?.
best of luck mate..xx
I hope you are not serious. Still, my conscience isn't taking any chances. Please do not do that-you don't want them to suffer along with you, isn't it better that you found out now before you got her pregnant. Imagine the devastation you will be avoiding. Please don't be selfish. Consider adoption, though-as HIV is not airborne, you can enjoy a healthy fatherhood.
Yes! That is one of the most common.
If you have HIV, then you and your girlfriend need to get some counceling on what you should be doing in the relationship to prevent her from contracting it!
yes...sorry...hope you informed her about it...
look just pray about it ok and don't put her at risk unless you are married and she loves in spite of your problem ............. god have mercy on him please god
hiv isnt as contagous as everybody thinks. but there is a chance that you will give it to her if you have unprotected sex and to the baby aswell. try ivf.
HIV transmission varies greatly from one sexual encounter to another as a person's viral load fluctuates. It's highest just after infection and then tapers off to a more stable level. In addition, not every incidence of unprotected penetrative sex will result in transmission of infection so it really is like Russian roulette. A woman is more likely to become infected if she has an STI herself or a vaginal infection such as bacterial vaginosis, if she is menstruating, if she is pregnant or has just had a misccariage or abortion, if her partner is uncircumcised or if she experiences trauma to the vagina during intercourse which results in her bleeding.
Also it would probably take having intercourse more than 'just once' before she conceived, thus increasing the odds of you passing your infection to her.
Why not consider donor insemmination. I realise that the child woud not biologically be yours, but DNA is not the most important factor in feeling like a parent to your child. If it were, no-one would use this method or adopt children. You should also talk to your doctor to see if there is any way that your own sperm could be treated outside the body to remove any trace of the virus and then introduced into your partner artificially. Here is an articel about this type of procedure
http://www.israel21c.org/bin/en.jsp?enDi...
Personally, I think that YOU should be responsible here and tell your partner that you care too much for her to expose her to the risk of infection and persuade her to consider other options. I'm quite sure you couldn't live with the guilt if she ended up infected - a situation which could then result in an HIV+ baby being born.
Good luck to you both.
Seek assistance at a fertility clinic. some offer a sperm-washing programme for HIV infected men so couples of mixed HIV statues can try to conceive a child without exposing the unifected partner.
Yes there is a chance, what is your viral load? is it low or undetectable? That is a risk reduction, Does she have any STDs, as that would increase her risk of becoming infected.
Your best bet would be to sit down with you HIV doctors and talk about options and risks and go from there. Good Luck!
very BIG chance go talk to your Doctor
You will probably kill her. I don't know if they can test for it, but about 14% of the northern European population has some immunity to HIV. About half of those will never get it at all and the other half will carry the virus but never get sick. So many white American(about 14%) will not get AIDS, but do you want to play Russian Roulette?
Blacks do not have the immunity. That is why blacks are more likely to have AIDS. A couple of years ago, HIV was growing fastest among black females. Many black males quietly engage in homosexual behavior and give it to female sexual partners. HIV is more easily transmitted by anal sex, rather than vaginal sex.
I have long believed that people with HIV should have been quarantined.
Do your own research, and what I have just stated will be proven true. If there is a "dumbass" posting in here, it isn't me.
Noy long ago there was a special on showing exactly how some Europeans have an immunity from AIDS. It is only about 14% of the population, having either full or partial immunity, but IT IS SCIENTIFIC FACT! So, some people run their mouths about issues they are obviously uninformed about! 14% is a lot of people in number but not a very large per centage of the population. All I said was that some whites are immune and blacks have no immunity. As a group, blacks did not suffer the plauge which acted very similar to AIDS.
I don't talk aboutthings that I don't know about, and unlike some, I do not make decisions and opinions based on emotion.