Erectile Dysfunction at 16...really depressed again?!


Question: Erectile Dysfunction at 16...really depressed again?
I'm 16 and I have a hard time getting an erection when me and my girlfriend try to get intimate .. and the scary part is this is the second time this has happened but only worse than last time. We started off kissing as usual then we got naked and still nothing happened . So made an effort to get me hard. she sucked my penis and began to grind her vagina against the shaft of my penis. Still couldn't get hard but I managed to ejaculate in less than a minute after she sucked after only 3 to 4 blows. I was utterly embarassed and I felt humilliated at that I felt less than a guy. I don't know what to do this is the second time this has happened to me with the same girl. Why couldn't I get hard? Is there any way to fix this ? It was just yesterday when we were making out in the mall I got stiff but when we get intimate I can't get up at all what's wrong with me.I'll admit I viewed porn at least 3 times in a week and,one day prior to seeing her and I ejaculated by humping my bed without manual(hand) stimulation I also ran to her house which is like 3 to 4 miles from where I live and we were under a time limit before her parents came back again. Did those contribute to me not get hard?( I told my Dad about the situation he said I was probably scared and nervous and just had some anxiety because we were in a rush to do it before her parents got home.But the thing is I didn't feel scared or nervous. Is it possible to be scared and nervous and don't feel like it at the same?)Do they prescribe erections pills to guys my age? Help I really worried because I may not be able to reproduce ever in my life..

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This is not an uncommon occurrence for young men (and certainly not for older ones) - it's just not as simple an action as it seems to be. I would recommend against over-the-counter ED remedies; there is no regulation of what may be in them and you could wind up doing some harm to yourself. For a while, why not take a break from trying to prove something and just relax and go with what happens?
I'm amazed you have such an open line of communication with your dad! There are any number of reasons why you had the problem you had, and I note from previous questions that you have some other issues going on. However, if you want another opinion on these things, you may email me to discuss more.



It could be your nerves, fatigue or just not in the mood. try relexing and do not rush things



Performance anxiety is the most common cause of losing or not getting an erection. It is the result of being in your head worrying about whether or not you will get hard or stay hard. Once you start to do that you get caught in a "fear of failure" cycle which keeps reinforcing itself. How to deal with this problem is explained in simple terms in a small inexpensive book on premature ejaculation.

There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is this inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully for more than 32 years.

It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just enter the doctor’s name in any search engine: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.



A lot of people might end up thumbing this answer down, because it's a solution that involves medication..

Regardless, just trust me on this one.
Go on the web and Google and purchase some horny goat weed pills. Read about them a little first.

Do you know how much Viagara and similar substances cost? Around $10 for every pill, that's why there's such a huge internet Spam market for them. Yes, you could go see your doctor, he may be reluctant to prescribe you anything at first, but he should be able to do it.

Another avenue to explore = do you have any fetishes? Could be the problem is that your interests aren't being sufficiently explored.

EDIT:
Notice how I didn't include a link.
Notice how Esta (apparently a doctor who spends their day hours gratuitously linking people to viagra sites on Yahoo! Answers) did. This is an example of the SPAM I was referring to.

minor in pharmacology




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