Visited dr. still not sure what to do?!

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Sex is more mental than physical. Stress is mental more than physical. The mind can only do so many things at once. Stress and sex do not mix.

Just relax and play with your self. Enjoy the feel of a soft penis in your hand and take your time. Rub your ball and feel how soft they are then work your way down to your anus and butt cheeks. Want a real sensation? Shave it all. Use Magic shaving powder or a razor . Make sure you exfoliate well each shower and it will be amazing soft. Then lay back and do the above.

Instead of being so goal oriented just enjoy the ride. I cannot tell you how much I absolutely adore sucking a soft cock. Since women rarely orgasm coitus a 69 or other oral even manual position will serve you just as well... rather her.

Satisfying another person will fill your mind with the sex drive that will help far more than being so wrapped up on your own performance and pleasure.

Good sex to you.

Sometimes levetra doesnt work or is not the correct dosage there is cialas and viagra available to you also ask him i he has sample packs of the other too so you can try them out.


curtdude

Get a second opinoin, See a psychologist

Sometimes, lifestyle changes can make a huge difference.
No smoking - no beer/ale - no booze - no drugs. ANY of these can interrupt blood flow to your penis resulting in diminished libido & cause erectile dysfunction or impotence.
Stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, crappy diet, not enough exercise & some medications can also cause malfunction at the junction.
Make some changes!

The following article could prove beneficial to you: (What have you got to lose?)

Improve Sexual Virility - (For Guys)

Many men suffer from a low sex drive, sexual performance problems, and an overall lack of male virility. These problems can negatively impact a man's self-esteem, sense of self-worth, and the quality of his romantic relationships. However, problems with male virility and sexual functioning can be, in most cases, remedied. What follows is a list of lifestyle, health, and dietary factors that promote strong male virility and improved sexual function and performance.

Step 1 - GET ADEQUATE SLEEP

Your body needs adequate amounts of sleep in order to maximize sexual performance and sexual virility. A lack of sleep is a major cause of low sex drive and/or sexual problems. Strive to get at least 7-9 hours of sleep each night to increase and maintain sexual virility. Take afternoon rests or naps when possible.

Step 2 - DE-STRESS REGULARLY

Chronic stress is toxic to the body and can negatively impact sexual virility and sexual function. Strive to keep stress levels as low as possible in order to maximize not only your health and well-being, but to increase your sexual virility and sex drive. Meditate on a regular basis; do yoga moves in addition to deep breathing exercises to help unwind and de-stress.

Step 3 - EXERCISE REGULARLY

In addition to improving mental and physical health, regular exercise promotes healthy sexual function and helps to improve sexual virility. Aim to exercise at least 4-5 times per week, incorporating moderate cardiovascular exercise in addition to strength training. Regular exercise promotes healthy blood circulation and increases testosterone and growth hormone levels, all of which promote increased sexual virility and sexual function.

Step 4 - ELIMINATE JUNK FOOD

Eating a healthy diet promotes physical and emotional health as well as healthy sexual function and virility. A poor diet, one lacking in adequate nutrients and antioxidants, can result in a low sex drive and sexual performance problems, including impotence. Eat a diet heavy in fruits and vegetables, whole grains, lean cuts of meat and fish, and low-fat dairy to increase sexual virility and improve sexual function.

Step 5 - ADD GARLIC TO YOUR DIET

Garlic is rich in allicin, which can improve blood flow to the sexual organs, which in turn promotes healthy sexual function and strong, hard erections. Cut up some garlic and sprinkle it on your favorite foods. Or take a garlic supplement. Garlic is a sexual super food that can increase your sexual virility.

Step 6 - ADD AVOCADO TO YOUR DIET

Avocados are rich in folic acid and high in vitamin B6, both of which help to regulate sexual hormone function, which in turn helps to optimize sexual health and sexual virility. Add some avocado slices to your salad or on your sandwich.

Step 7 - EAT A BANANA DAILY

Bananas are another sexual super food that can help improve sexual function and increase sexual virility. Bananas are high in bromelain and b vitamins, both of which are potent sexual hormone regulators that can help improve sexual function, sexual desire, and sexual virility. Add a banana to your daily diet.

If you are in good health, it is then indeed a mind problem,
The rule I found for erections is, the harder you try, the softer it gets.
If you have morning erections that would show no physical problem, like most guys the first time you did not get hard like steel you probably panicked, I know I did.

Then the next time around instead od just relaxing and enjoying the experience, you were monitoring
and watching to see if all systems were go, this takes all of the pleasure out of things and makes it seem like a task, like raking leaves or mowing the lawn.

When you go solo ( i know you do, we all do) just lay back and do your thing, don't worry about if "things work" a hard penis is not your goal, your goal is to have some alone time, to relax and pay attention to your self, don't even think of the outcome, just have fun, a soft penis can be fun too, if it gets erect, well so much the better, just keep in mind that your goal is to have some fun, not a hard penis.

If you take this approach I think you will be pleasantly surprised, I was.

been there done it