Would watching a lot of porn make a man unable to perform?!
Question: Would watching a lot of porn make a man unable to perform!?
While I was away for an extended amount of time, my husband swears he never slept with anyone(LIAR), but I did find a huge stack of XXXXXXXXXporn in our home!.!.!.DVDs!. Now for the sake of arguement, lets pretend all he did was watch them all and alot: after no sex/just videos for so long, shouldn't he be able to perform!? He couldn't finish the first time!.!.the second ok!. Is it possible that after seeing so much and fantasizing so much about women on DVDs, I don't really turn him on anymore!? And what should I do with the porn!? If watching it makes him unable to perform, I wish he'd get rid of it!!!! ( Someday soon it will have to go cuz we have kids in the house!.!.!.) I'd rather he watched porn than have an affair for sure!.!.!.No, actually I wish he didn't watch it, but anyways!.!.!. He said watching it made him think of me(!?) I said watching it made me wish I could find a guy with as huge a **** as the ones in the videos so I could see what it felt like!. (snicker!.!.)
You'd think watching all those DVDs would make him want some real sex even more, wouldn't it!?
He never used to have porn in the house, and we had an amazing sexual life!.!.!.4-6 times a week, dry spells no longer than one week!.!. compared to others married almost as long as we have been!.
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You'd think watching all those DVDs would make him want some real sex even more, wouldn't it!?
He never used to have porn in the house, and we had an amazing sexual life!.!.!.4-6 times a week, dry spells no longer than one week!.!. compared to others married almost as long as we have been!.
Please help me figure this out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Porn is something that turns most men on and really gets then raved up for action!. He might be relieving himself, don't be hurt by this, men just have a lot of fantasies and no matter how good you look or what you do you will never be able to fulfill all of their desires!. Just make sure he's not cheating on you, that you need to make sure of!. Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
He's addicted to it!. And you just made him feel like he is incompetent in the bed!. That's the way he took the big penis remark!. Keep it up and you'll be smelling someone eleses perfume on his cloths!. He needs help with the addiction!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes he can actually pleasure himself and not be able to perform when he gets back!. Maybe you orta be more considerate of him!. Your probably ugly and I wouldn't want to do you either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It might give him some poor notions, but it would not stop him from performingWww@Answer-Health@Com
In my experience with men, porn usually turns a man on and makes him more exciting in bed for you!. Honestly, he probably had the porn before you found it!. Personally, I don't have a problem with porn!. I've watched it with guys before and it actually turns me on too!. It probably won't keep your man from cheating, but it could enhance the sex between the two of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Jj P, it sounds like you believe he is just watching porn and not getting himself off while watching it!. I hope this is not what you think because men don't just watch porn, they watch porn and jack off, masturbate, jerk it, or whatever you call it but they satisfy themselves by coming!. To believe otherwise would be extremely naive!. Of course he is not going to want sex as often if he is getting off while watching porn!. I don't have the answer for breaking this compulsion of watching porn, it's a real tough one but I wouldn't belittle him by saying you think about how it would feel having a man with a bigger dick!. That would be counter productive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com