Husband doesnt want kids but wont have the snip?!


Question: Husband doesnt want kids but wont have the snip!?
Any ideas!?
Im on the pill!. Have been for 8yrs!.
He knows that the pill isnt 100% effective
He wont wear a condom not have the snip!.
I told him that if he doesnt want kids then he should have the snip!. I dont see why all I should bear 100% of the contraception!.

By the way, I originally went on the pill not just for birth control!.

Exaclty, what am I missing here!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Cosmetic surgery is a choice!. His choice!. Why else did you go on the pill if not for birth control!? Ovarian Cysts!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

What about alternating between using a condom, and a diaphragm (cervical cap) coated with spermicidal cream!?

Birth control pills used as directed are 96 - 99% effective!.

Some men cannot function wearing a condom!.

Vasectomy in rare, isolated cases has led to impotency and serious infection!.

Some get funny benign lumps!.

Most just have a week of some pain and then everything is just as it was, but without the lil swimmers!.

But that small risk and the idea of somebody cutting or lasering around down there scares most men off!.

Plus getting it reversed is not always successful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get a diaphram!. Worked great for us!. I told my wife early on, don't ever asked me to get snipped (scared to death) and I'll never ask you to have a your tubes tied, etc!. The diaphram's are good for like 5-10 years and our insurance covered much of it, where birth control pills were not covered!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe he doesn't know enough about the proceedure and is just plain scared!.

Guys have all sorts of weird ideas about how it might effect them!.

I suggest you get him information on the proceedure and then somehow have him talk to a guy who has had it done!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He may say he doesn't want kinds now, but there's a possibility of him having kids later on in the marriage; just don't push/ force him into it, you said you wanted kinds, he might too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your age!? How happy he is in the marriage!. There are any number of things that would make him say no thanks!. I myself seen Dr!. snippi and it was not bad at allWww@Answer-Health@Com

Probably because it's a surgical procedure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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