Why is everyone so afraid to be themselves anymore?!
Question: Why is everyone so afraid to be themselves anymore!?
sereously
im a guy, and im not afraid to admit that i have had the fantasy THAT EVERY GUY HAS HAD that involved another guy or guys!. You know you've had atleast one, it takes a big man to own up to it and not have fear of catching "the gay" from things out of their controll
conciously or not, your mind will experiment
people today seem to care too much about what others think of them!.
If someone were to call me gay, id just ignore it and know in my mind that i like women
really, what does anyone elses opinion matter to you!?
"someone called me gay, so i must be"
yeah, THATs gonna happen
i know that its human nature to be curious, i personally wouldent experiment too far if at all into it, but people are so afraid to be themseles nowadays, its sickening, i have a cousin who came out to me and my family and didnt tell the rest of our family for YEARS, its so weird
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im a guy, and im not afraid to admit that i have had the fantasy THAT EVERY GUY HAS HAD that involved another guy or guys!. You know you've had atleast one, it takes a big man to own up to it and not have fear of catching "the gay" from things out of their controll
conciously or not, your mind will experiment
people today seem to care too much about what others think of them!.
If someone were to call me gay, id just ignore it and know in my mind that i like women
really, what does anyone elses opinion matter to you!?
"someone called me gay, so i must be"
yeah, THATs gonna happen
i know that its human nature to be curious, i personally wouldent experiment too far if at all into it, but people are so afraid to be themseles nowadays, its sickening, i have a cousin who came out to me and my family and didnt tell the rest of our family for YEARS, its so weird
what do you guys think!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Everybody is hung up on the "am I gay!?" thing and they're afraid to admit their own feelings for fear it will cause them to be labeled as gay!.
I'm 15 and I'm not afraid to admit that I experiment and it's a lot of fun!. I know I'm not gay, so I don't worry about it!.
Of course, I can't admit it to my friends (the ones I don't experiment with) because I'll have to take a lot of s**t from them!. I think they feel if they call YOU gay, it makes it look like THEY are not, so it's a form of protection for them!. If you really ARE gay, you still have to hide it from other people because people are just not accepting of it and can make life miserable for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm 15 and I'm not afraid to admit that I experiment and it's a lot of fun!. I know I'm not gay, so I don't worry about it!.
Of course, I can't admit it to my friends (the ones I don't experiment with) because I'll have to take a lot of s**t from them!. I think they feel if they call YOU gay, it makes it look like THEY are not, so it's a form of protection for them!. If you really ARE gay, you still have to hide it from other people because people are just not accepting of it and can make life miserable for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think it is because T!.V and news ect are saying that if you try anything like that you must be gay so they think if they try it they must be gay!. and anyone who saids your gay must mean they are!. that how i see itWww@Answer-Health@Com
"someone called me gay, so i must be"
I don't think anyone ever thinks that!.!.!. I'd say 6 million years of finely honed primal instincts outweigh schoolyard name-calling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think anyone ever thinks that!.!.!. I'd say 6 million years of finely honed primal instincts outweigh schoolyard name-calling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im not a guy you said what do you guys think but i honestly say SCREW WHAT PEOPLE SAY be who you are and just tell them F**K OFF if they have a problem with it basically =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't take being insulted very easily!. If someone insults me, and means it, we usually just throw it down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'll admit it is a bit saddening that people cannot admit that they have experienced thoughts and fantasies at some point in time that are considered taboo to the rest of society, but it is not strange or weird that someone who is gay would be afraid admit that to the world!. Being gay has many negative stipulations attached to it, and people are very judgmental of others who have declared themselves homosexual, and as such, it can be terrifying for anyone to admit such, especially in regards to their family!. Family may or may not be accepting, and even if they do accept, it takes time, as most of their "perfect" ideals are shattered by this revelation, and the sense of having someone to fall on while the family is coping with this bombshell practically disappears, meaning that your own security in life is on the rocks, which in itself is terrifying!. So do not say it sickens you if someone is afraid of coming out, as that is a revelation that will turn their world upside down and change so many relationships within a family, relationships that provide emotional security and peace of mind; Shaking those relationships causes one to feel utterly alone, and that loneliness is a terrible thing for anyone to experience, so avoiding that kind of life changing experience is nothing to be disgusted at!.Www@Answer-Health@Com