Men, Are you lying when you tell your lady.............?!


Question: Men, Are you lying when you tell your lady!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?
That every woman you have been with could have an orgasm with intercourse!?
I cannot have an orgasm through intercourse, and I have read that this is VERY common with a LOT of women, BUT every man I have talked to claims that that is not true!. They (men) all say "Oh every woman I have been with has been able to"
I think you are either lying or the woman faked!.
I just put a question over in women's health about this and even most of those that answered say they cannot have an orgasm that way (intercourse)!.
So what is the deal here!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Yeah, men lie, what can we say!? We aren't good in bed---and we'll probably only last 3 minutes---but to make ourselves feel better--we'll make up stories about how we typically have 3 hours of passionate love making where the woman is screaming stop because is she is having such a phenomenal orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, any guy you're with that tells you you're doing something wrong, and other girls did it right, is a jerk!. LOTS of women fake orgasms for one reason or another, but the truth is that MANY women cannot orgasm during intercourse!. I can, but not always, for example!. You are perfectly normal!. Dump the guy and get with someone who agrees with me!! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was having this exact discussion with a male friend!. He thinks every woman he has slept with had an orgasm!. He won't believe me that they probably didn't!. My ex thinks I had an orgasm every time with him!. You know what!.!.!.!. I never had one! Sorry men, but your woman is almost definitely faking it!.
Btw GF, I "gush" too, but that does NOT mean I have had an orgasm! Sorry!.
abolay: most women can orgasm through masturbation!. most men just aren't up to the job but we can pleasure ourselves!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

me personally, i would rather relax and have things at face value!. i dont take some personal afront if my wife doesnt climax from intercourse!. i always make sure she gets there by other means, usually more than once!.

my wife can orgasm from intercourse, but that is the exception rather than the rule!. usually i get her there orally first, and perhaps a second time with a toy or oral after!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My GF gushes when she cums, so its pretty easy to tell


Oh- and all you girls faking it to make him 'feel better'- the only thing you're doing is reinforcing his poor technique, effectively ensuring you will NOT get an orgasm!. Why not tell the truth!?!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most men refuse to communicate with their lovers, it is as simple as that!. The fact is that only 1 in 3000 women can have a vaginal orgasm!. I know what my lovers have wanted because I ask them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Some guys just can't accept the fact that they couldn't give their women an orgasm (every time)!.!.!.!.so they lie!. Or if the women were sensitive enough to the man's feelings, they'd be faking it every time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Men take it as personal when a woman is unable to have an orgasm through intercourse, that is why they say those things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Women tell us they had an orgasm, we tell women that those pants don't make them look fat!. Sometimes you tell people what they need to hear, which is not always necessarily the truth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The key is clitoral stimulation *DURING* intercourse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Could really care less if the woman has an orgasm!.

I have one every time and that is all that really counts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

all women are different honest some like it inside some like it outside (g spot or clit) i mean!. just find out wat works for you even on your own if you have too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i agree with you but i did lie to my ex bf once about it but i just wanted him to feel better cuz he said he sucked and he didWww@Answer-Health@Com

I don't think they're faking those screams of ecstasy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I can have both!.!.vaginal and clitoris!.!.!.
but you are correct most women can only have one or the otherWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well the women haven't been with me!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

so what do u woman do to have orgasms!?!?!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

No!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Untrue:they do not come always!.
Sky!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think with us guys, its a pride thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have heard some women say they've never had an orgasm during intercourse!. That might mean that there is some physiological reason they can't or it might mean that none of the men they have been with paid enough attention to take care of them!.

When I girst got involved with my ex she told me she had never had an orgasm with another person, only by mastrubating!. I certainly won't claim I hit the bullseye the first time, but I wanted to give that to her!. During sex I listened to her closely, watching her reactions as I tried different things in different spots!. After about three months of practice I learned where she was most sensative and exactly how much pressure to use and was able to make her orgasm by pleasuring her with my tongue and fingers together!. It took almost a year after that before it happened for the first time during intercourse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I can only speak from my own experience, and not for other men!. So the references to that come from the women I had been with!. I tend to stay with them several years so the actual number of different women have been low!. Too much danger out there to have too many partners!. However - to answer your question as best as possible here is what I have been told!.

First of all I have never had a girl tell me that I could not get them off with straight sex!. But I am rare in that I am also intact!. NOT CUT!.

I have had some girls that don't get off all the time and others that get off all the time and with ease!. The rate of getting them off increases 100 fold if I prep them first!. Going down ! You know!.!.!. Not just wam bam thank you mam types of sex!. Although sometimes they want it that way!.

By far the best comment that might fit was one girl that said no other boyfriend could do it for her with straight sex, and that I was able to!.
Other discussions brought the fact that I was also the only natural un-altered male she ever had!. Is any of this true!. One never knows what part of what girl says to her lover is true, but it seemed to be the case!.

In my opinion the answer is that it is very common here in the United States where men have only one third of their penis left!. Everything is different!. The action, the width, the sensitivity, and the whole sex act is different!. You would have to find yourself one of these to actually test the results!. That in itself could be difficult depending on your age!.

In my year I make up about 12 percent of the males!. Today the number of parents choosing Not TO CUT, is about 40 to 45 percent!. A huge decrease since the peak in 1985!.

The reasons are plenty, but the female response to an intact male was reported to be faviorable by 4 in 5 women!. This was then repeated many times and the average was still 4 in 5 females indicated to scientists conducting the tests that they prefered the intact male!.

Again, the only way to test this for yourself is to find one!. They are generally bigger since nothing was ever removed!. Its not a little skin as many people would think!. Its a lot of skin and its effects are very negative to both partners!.

So far no girl I have been with could not be had that way to success, but I should also add that some do find it difficult to achive!.

In those cases when I get mine and they don't get theirs!.!.!. I compensate by going down on them and getting my job completed!.

I never ever leave the bed without them getting off!. I want them to love having sex with me!. So I do whatever it takes!. That is how I make my girlfreinds like having me and not looking to replace me!.

So if you really like your partner!.!.!. You really want to keep that partner!.!.!.!.

You make certain they allways get off!. No matter how!. Dick, tounge, fingers or whatever!.
Many times I get them off first!. It keeps me hot throughout the event!. Getting me of is simple!. Getting them off can be a task!.

So you are not alone, but you might want to test out this other aspect!. The US leads the world in sexsual dsyfunction!. We also lead the world in hurting all our baby boys!.!.!.

Its tragic, but the rest of the world cannot seem to figure out why we do what we do!. The reason people do it is the jewish influence in this country is very high!. A long time ago it was just standard proceedure!. Today infromed parents are refusing it, and leaving it a choice for the boy!.

They never opt for it!.!.!. 8-)

No big surprise!.!.!. I would rather die than give mine up!. Also - Hospitals charge to have it removed, and then make billions each year selling them to drug companies!.!.!. So there is a hughe push to collect them!.

When Bush administration stopped stem cell research!. It forced a huge demand for foreskins because of the properties asscoiated with their cells being so similar!.


Still todays parents are more informed on the pitfalls of having this done to someone without concent!. Its really a crime!. And women pay for this later in life!. Most women are not happy with their sexsual partners in this counrty!.

This is not true elsewhere in the world!. So given this compelling evidence!. I would give this a try next time, and see for yourself if in fact it hold water!.

Not sure if its the best answer, but its the best one I have for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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