Should I help my friend masturbate?!
Question: OK my friend has always had a very sheltered life. He's 14 and untill this last friday didnt know what masturbation was. We were on a fieldtrip and me and three of my friends were talkin about jackin off and skeet and he asked about it. We explained how to do it and why you want to. Still he seemed rather clueless. I'm comfortable with my own sexuality (Im straight) but do you think I should help him? Like bring porn and Jack off with him? I just want to help
Answers: OK my friend has always had a very sheltered life. He's 14 and untill this last friday didnt know what masturbation was. We were on a fieldtrip and me and three of my friends were talkin about jackin off and skeet and he asked about it. We explained how to do it and why you want to. Still he seemed rather clueless. I'm comfortable with my own sexuality (Im straight) but do you think I should help him? Like bring porn and Jack off with him? I just want to help
yes and wow im real like proud of you being that secure in ur sexuality
Why not.
that's up to you, dude.
Just a thought, and you know your friend better than I do, but maybe he's playing dumb so someone like you will do exactly that to him. As in, maybe he likes that? Dunno, just a thought. Seems to me that masturbation comes pretty naturally to a guy.
I'm not sure if this is a joke, but my answer is no.
dont do it. he could file sexual battery charges against you.. or even rape charges.
Yeah that'd be alright. A lot of kids your age (like me) jack off together. And we're all perfectly straight
If he is clueless let him know what is he missing out on. Do as you wish to help him but give him porn and have him go in the bathroom and j/o. Some are very clueless but that is why you have friends. He won't file any charges because all your doing is giving him info. Ask him if he wants to know how, let him know. Ask him if he needs a demo? Just ask questions to see what is he comfortable with. Then you will know how much to say/do.
There would be no harm in helping your buddy out and get him going on his own .....
Just make sure that he is comfortable with the idea before you begin getting undressed ... lol ....
Hopefully; you will both learn from this experience ...
No, I wouldn't. That would be really akward! I would just let him be and dont bring up the matter.
Why dont you do it for him?
bringing porn an jacking off with him might be kinda awkward but then again im not a guy. Maybe you could direct him to a website that explains how men masturbate. that might help.
no i dont think you should
i think it would be ok. if he is ok with it. if he feels weird about it then you probably shouldnt. but you should also refer him to this website http://www.jackinworld.com/ it isnt a gross kinky website or anything. it tells how to masturbate and what it is and different ways to do it. i think it would help him alot. good luck :)
Masturbation is not a team or spectator sport, and should only be done alone as a sexual tension release or with your spouse. You claim to be straight, but entertain the idea of helping another male to masturbate!?! Sounds like you have tendencies.
honestly i think thats a terrible idea
besides being pretty innappopriate, imagine the trouble you could get into if his parents found out and/or if your parents found out
you might mean well but in the end youre really not helping him with anything
Why would you want to jerk off with him? I mean, when I was 14, I had some real close buddies. But I never thought of helping them masturbate. Why, in the world, would you?
He's healthy. He has a penis. He will discover that it feels good to masturbate. With or without your help. That could really change your friendship. And it's just creepy.
i guess so dont see why not
Just don't share bodily fluids with the guy, OK. I'm serious. This little rule of thumb can keep you out of a lot of trouble later on in life.
um, well, thats kind of debatable, if your talking about just standing next to him and doing that... (meaning not TOUCHING his) then ok. but if you mean.. helping him physicly... dont. that could screw with his feelings... ya know??
DO It :)
If your friend is 14 then I take it your around the same age, ok? well this means that there is no legal reason for you not to do it to him for the first time, and if you both enjoy the experience and don't suffer guilt problems or other difficulties. Well from then on there's no reason for both of you to enjoy it continually because if either of you are gay then that person will continue along that path in life whilst the other will find his body and his psyc will need other forms of fulfillment; and therefore follow his natural urges.
Don't worry no one; ever, in history was made to become gay by force or coercing, it just cannot happen because your body will tell you it needs something else. you can pretend to be something else but right inside you you will always know the truth.
All that having been said, there is one thing to remember. No matter what you do to try to prevent it if either you or your friend is gay then nature will have her way. Ok over with the serious stuff Go for it your only a teenager once and then the fun and experimentations gone forever, Good luck ROBERTO
Yes! I would!
If you're the same age as him go for it. Enjoy dude!
offer your help and if he's ok with it go for it dud.