I might have a sexual orientaion problem, please help?!
Question: hey im a male whos 18 years of age,
anyways, i masturbate thinking of men and woman (but woman quite more)
i look at pictures of woman and men (but mostly men)
i masturbate looking at a guys picture in front of my computer,
when i watch music videos i repeat a scene just to watch the guys looks,
but overall, i find some guys attractive (a little bit) but still
i think i might be bi...
can you people plz help me out
Answers: hey im a male whos 18 years of age,
anyways, i masturbate thinking of men and woman (but woman quite more)
i look at pictures of woman and men (but mostly men)
i masturbate looking at a guys picture in front of my computer,
when i watch music videos i repeat a scene just to watch the guys looks,
but overall, i find some guys attractive (a little bit) but still
i think i might be bi...
can you people plz help me out
it seems you is bi
Sounds like you hit the nail on the head. You're sexually attracted to both men and women and that makes you bi-sexual.
you is bi
your Bi-sexual. you go both ways
well you might be gay...but also you might by bi
u are attracted to both men and women but the thing is who would u rather live wit and have a meaningful conversation and fall in love wit and do things for and which gender u rather have sex wit it
Its your choice what you want to be. Sounds like you wanna be gay; then go ahead, its your choice.
i don't think you are necessarily bi. I think you are at an age where you are curious about men. not just for sexual reasons, but maybe you don't have a good relationship with dad and you are wondering about things about men. the fact that you think about women more makes me think that is what you prefer. Maybe you are curious about other men and what they are experiencing, but not necessarily wanting to be with them. if that is the case then you are straight
i think your normal....quit worrying and enjoy life
im 16 and im attraced to girls and guys
but more so guys
there fuckign hot!!
im a football player
and no one has a clue im gay
it sucks
so my suggestion to you
is to tell someone
beacause this lie i live sucks
i have a girlfirned whos so hot
but im not sexually attracted to her
id rather go home and mastubate to some bodubuilders
infact i want a man to **** so badly i began bodybuilding myself so i can look at myself and pretend its somone else
yeah
i know sounds crazyy
and if your like me
have parents who hate gays
popular in school
and tell your firneds about your experinces with girls all the time
than your screwed
i hate it
i feel suicidal it sucks
so have sex with a man
do it for me
because as much as i want to i never will
because this hell called society will kill me
ohh and dont become popular if you are than you konw why it sucks
im sorry im popular i dont want to be it fuckgin sucks
You might just be one of those guys who gets turned on by another guys penis, but is not gay (it sounds strange, and its rareish but it happens). You may be bisexual too... but don't rush to find the answer, these things take time and if you try to rush to find out your sexuality you're just going to get hurt. Also, don't try to hold on to every possibility that you are straight, in the short term this may look good, but if you are gay/bi you can't just change your sexuality. Guys who do end up coming out at 40, to be alone and hang around public toilets looking for action. Just be careful, there are a lot of guys who will take advantage of curious guys like you.
Try posting in the gay section of this. And remember, take things slow. I have always known I was gay since I can remember, but these things happen all the time, so I know what I'm talking about. Email me if you like.
This response is especially for Jake5021. You sound like a very bright young man. FIRST of all, there are support groups for young people like yourself. PLEASE do not take your own life. I lost my best friend in high school to suicide. There is hardly a day that goes by that I don't think about him and what I could have done to have saved him. He was smart, popular, handsome and had everything money could buy. Although his parents were wealthy, they could not buy his life back. He was an only son. Not only did his suicide destroy his family, it destroyed a lot of others as well. Some of us have never gotten over it and maybe, never will.
DON'T blame yourself for who you are. DON'T place the blame on anyone else. You are who you are. You are one of a kind, unique, no one else like you and very, very special. Remember, you are created by God and God makes no mistakes. He is perfect. He cannot, would not and will not.
Since He gave you life, He is the ONLY one who should decide when it is over.
Remember this if you don't remember anything else. The world hated Jesus, His Son so much, they tortured him in unspeakable and unthinkable ways, humiliated him publicly and finally murdered him like a criminal, by crucifixion on a cross. He never had a chance. His friends and the world betrayed him. All He ever did was good. He never socialized with rich people. He spent all his time with the poor, sick, and ordinary people.
One one occasion, all the "good citizens" of the community had gathered to stone a prostitute to death. He walked into their midst, picked up a stone and instructed ANYONE who was in the crowd without sin and was perfect to throw the first stone. There was NOT ONE person who could do it. NOT ONE. He knelt beside the prostitute, blessed her and told her to go and sin no more.
To this day, there are people who want to stone other people to death with words and weapons only because they are different. And still, not one of them is perfect. Everyone has secrets about themselves. Many are prominent and wealthy people who have a dark heart. They try to avert attention away from themselves by being mean to other people.
You may think your parents would hate you if they found out you were gay but trust me, they love you very, very, very much.
The first thing you should do is to find someone you can trust.
When you have established this trust, confide in them your secrets. Call them every time you feel lonely, a little blue or just need someone to talk to. There are many other young people just like you and there are many people, just like Jesus who would love you just as you are.
Tough times don't last but tough people do. You should start by learning to like yourself. Thank God every day for giving you everything you have: your parents, your friends, your health, your popularity, your good looks, and every beautiful thing and person in your life. Choose your friends. Surround yourself with upbeat, good, sincere, positive and successful people. Enjoy every single minute of your life.
You will not always be sixteen. Look ahead, but never look back. Do something special for someone and tell no one. You will be surprised how much happiness this will bring to you. Be the kind of person you would like to have as your own best friend.
Life on this earth is very short and time passes very quickly. Some day soon, you will find someone very special whom you can spend the rest of your very special life with. When you do, think back and think of me. I know all of this because, I've been there and done that.