Is my MOM PSYCHOTIC?!

Is my MOM PSYCHOTIC?

I'm 23. Ever since I've been alive, my mom has been very abusive & kind of sadistic to my brother & I. My brother moved out once he turned 18 & now disassociates himself from the family because he hates her. Now that I am older, my mom has stopped beating on me, but she still tries to terrorize me phsychologically anytime I'm around & start explosive arguments. These days she mostly steals my identity & tries ruining my credit. Every relationship she's ever been in has been a complete failure: full of abuse, disrespect, jailtime, alcohol, marijuana, etc. She's usually the one starting the fights & puts all of her energy into manipulating and ruining the men that she is with & then claims to be victimized. My 60 yr. old grandmother, who just successfully got out of alcohol rehab is now living w/ my mom, & my mom is buying her beers all the time and I don't understand why. The wierd thing is, she's kind to animals.

WHAT IS YOUR ANALYSIS OF MY MOM'S BEHAVIOR?
WHY DOES SHE DO THIS?

3 weeks ago
ALSO...
She has a lack of ambition and gained massive weight, keeps the house FILTHY, she is very unethical at work and is on the verge of being fired, which she doesn't understand why. She never sees herself as being wrong for anything. She's always the victim.

To answer your first question: Yes, your mom is very psychotic. All I can tell you is flee far, far away from her, like your brother did. But don't do it in a way that you're keeping all your demons inside you. You just have to realize that kind of unnecessary stress and s hit in life you truly don't need around you, and you have to let her go in that way, so you can peacefully get on with your life. And make sure you never turn into her. Let your kids have a better life than you had.

All my best.