How can I stop obsessing about being on time?!
Question:
How can I stop obsessing about being on time?
I need to be on time for work etc. but if Im even ten minutes late to meet a friend I nearly freak out. I dont wear a watch for this reason.
Answers:
Dear Tarsh....I spent a lifetime in the same quandry. I was always early and really freaked out if I thought I was going to be late for anything. The worst part was that I would become enraged if someone else was late and kept me waiting. I used to say "To wait is to hate...so don't be late". I'm not sure what happened but I decided to program myself differently. It wasn't easy but I deliberately took my time and refused to worry about being late. (except for work) I got fed up with waiting for everyone else and decided to try it myself. It took a long time and a lot of anguish but I finally broke through and now I do things on my time...in my time and couldn't be happier. best wishes