Can anybody act as my therapist and help me out (I have guilt feelings)?!
Question:
Can anybody act as my therapist and help me out (I have guilt feelings)?
I'm a student, and therefore my income is not to big but I cannot say that I'm poor neither. Even I still have money left to save whenever I spend money I feel guilt. Last week I spent $ 30 in a club and I feel guilty because I think that I did not used it for a good reason, which kept me from having fun. This is so weird, I don't know why those damned $ 30 have hurt me so hard that I cannot sleep well. Does anyone has this same strange feeling of being afraid to spend money? Is that I'm afraid to be poor? I'm just 23, I know I have a lot of time to recover from losing money, but I still keep hammering my head whenever I spend money in not very necessary things. I feel guilt for not helping my family enough and spend in these unnecessary stuff. Is that normal? I think that I really need a shrink!!! Thanks for your help
PLEASE HELP ME BY TELLING ME YOUR OWN EXPERIENCES ABOUT THIS MATTER OF MONEY MANAGEMENT IN LIFE
Answers:
YES , I DO UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL AS I TO AM ONE WHO FEELS GUILTY AS I SPEND FOR ME, BUT YOU WILL NOT BE SUCESSFUL IF YOU DO NOT REWARD YOUR SELF , THERE ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE THINGS WE WILL NEED IN LIFE , BUT LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS, AS LONG AS YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR PRIORITIES AND YOU WANT SOME FUN GO FOR IT , DONT LET FEAR CRIPPEL YOUR LIFE, A WISE PERSON ONCE TOLD ME, YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE,AND IF DO NOT BREATH ONCE IN A WHILE ,GUESS WHAT YOUR DEAD. SO DO NOT FEEL GUILTY FOR YOUR HARD WORK , HAVE SOME FUN ! AND BY THE WAY IN THIS DAY AND AGE 30. BUCKS IS A GOOD TIME CHEEP! ENJOY!!!!!!!!