How to stop over-analyzing this situation?!
Question: How to stop over-analyzing this situation?
Answers:
In all seroiusness take a few deep breathes (count to 4 in, count to 4 out), take a pen and paper, and focus on whatever is on your mind. You obviously know you are a virgin since you had the mindset to ask this question so right that down in a "facts" column. Write out a fiction column and write what bad thoughts you are having. If you can sort it out this way you can have a more visual deterrent vs you going back and forth with yourself repeatedly. You just needa calm down a bit and concentrate on all the reasons you know you are a virgin and that you didnt lose it over a conversation. For every time you write something wrong or that you think is right but know is wrong, write 2 things down for how you know you are not. For example if you write " I am not a virgin anymore" then in the opposite column you could write " I only talked about it , I am a virgin" and "We were not together when it happened so we couldn't have had sex".