Someone help get rid of my shyness!?!
Question: Someone help get rid of my shyness!?
Answers:
I don't know how having sex is going to help u get rid of shyness. What i think u lack is self confidence. When u see people around u and think of talking to them, ur mind automatically revolts. U think that u r inferiour to them, u think they might notice ur faults and deride u. Well get rid of this totally. Mind this, there's no one in this damn world who can make u feel bad about urself but u. So just chill. Next tym u wanna talk 2 someone just walk up to them and talk. Start with 'hi, how r u doin?' etc. Be spontaneous. Socialising isn't tuf. Talk with friends. Talk with strangers. Only way u'l improve is if u do it once. U'l realise that it's nothing, and u'l laugh at urself for being lyk u r. Just relax. Have a little courage and faith in urself. That's all u need.
Been where u are.
Confidence comes from knowing who you are in Christ Jesus. Do you know the Lord? Scripture tells us that all good gifts come from above and shyness is not a good gift.
Scripture tells us that "perfect love casts out fear because fear has torment." Jesus is perfect love.
Being shy is a spirit of fear and it must be dealt with. Jesus, many times, told his disciples, "Do not fear." When we know Christ is for us, then who can be against us?
People suffer many mental illnesses because they do not know who they are in Christ Jesus.
Have sex.