What should i do please help?!
Question: What should i do please help?
I am 20 and for some reason my mind keeps thinking I am not a virgin, even though my ex boyfriend said I am as we never had sex. I even told my friends some of the things that me and my ex did and they said I am a virgin. My mind does this to me a lot of the times with other things as well ( I over analyze things sometimes). I keep thinking I might not be a virgin even though my ex said I am. He has no doubt about that as he is also a virgin as well and we never had sex. Please help me. I dont know what to do. I have no idea why I am thinking this way. A couple of days ago, I knew I was a virgin. I mean I have evidence that states that I am a virgin. Like I said to my ex 2 months ago: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" We were on skype when I said this. I never saw him after this skype conservation. So why the hell am I all of a sudden thinking Im not a virgin???!!! Serious answers only please. The reason why it is a big deal to me is because I want to stay a virgin until I am married. I want to know why all of a sudden I am thinking this.
Please dont be rude.
Answers:
what i suggest is...tell yourself that "you have self-control "
the only person you should listen to is "you". And just try to get that thing out of your mind. Let yourself be distracted to other things. then the haunting thoughts may stop bothering you! don't consider it as a big problem. everyone goes through these kind of things (i think).
so what am trying to say is, don't let it bother you. don't think its not possible. it is.
Well first of all this is an obsession and if it continues u should see a doctor. But losing virginity is really not a big deal, especially if you live in a modern country. so just take it easy and go on with your life and enjoy your moments.
No sex=virgin...not much else there is to it