I cry WAY too much? What's wrong with me?!
Question: I cry WAY too much? What's wrong with me?
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not to sound callous, but your question is asked a hundred times a week on this site. do a search and you'll get some tips.
you mentioned your 13.... maybe try contacting the hopeline? its faith based
http://www.thehopeline.com/CSDefault.asp…
Hiya you are only 13 and even though you havent had your first period your hormones will be all over the place this is normal for girls your age, all girls develop differently this doesnt mean theres anything wrong with you, im 54 you may think im an old fossil but i can remember what it was like and i have a daughter now grown that had much the same problems as you, every one off us go through an awkward stage in our lives i compare it to the ugly duckling one day when all this is behind you and you have developed into a young woman you will be the beutiful swan, but the looks are not everything its whats inside that means the most i can tell you are a sensible and have a caring nature, dont worry too much concentrate on your schooling and you will have the world at your feet, beleive me a pretty young woman with a caring heart and a job that only good schooling can provide you will have boys falling at your feet,and the choice will be your,choose carefully and you will have a life that others can only dream of, yes these are only words but belive me when i say, they are wise ones, i only wish the best for you as i did for my daughter and now shes grown she would tell you the same, have a wonderful life Carol
Well at least your good typist, I can see why you get good grades. Don't worry to much about your being different, hopefully as time goes by you'll toughen up just enough to feel ok around people, but always stay sensitive, because it's not a bad thing. And don't worry about not hitting puberty yet, it will happen soon enough, same thing with the boys, you'll change over the years, as will your peers, so don't stress these years, things can change so much, you just have to keep counting the positives and understand life is just barely beginning for you, the possibilities of good are endless, even if you don't see it.
This sounds very lame, but I'm 15 and people call me a slut and whore because I'm pregnant. All my friends and family did. I felt like a nobody and have low self confidence. So I made a list and thought of 10 great things about myself. Be honest with yourself. Then look at your list. Everybody has at least 10 no matter how imperfect you think you are. And for the crying thing, make another list of things that make you cry. Cry it all out. Then crumble it up and throw it away. Don't let people bother you. Talk to a teacher. They will want to help you, not judge you.