Self esteem issues...?!
Question: Self esteem issues!.!.!.!?
okay,
so i see myself as;
-the ugliest person on the face of the earth!.
-the person who cares about what people say too much!.
-the girl who no one likes!.
-the girl who's the outcast!.
-the girl with not a friend to her name!.
-the girl with no hobbies or talents!.
-and the girl who spends her time doing this!.
because i can't do anything else, and don't care about anything!.
i'm tired of ^ that person!.
i really want to just believe in myself,
and i have been trying for the longest time!.
but nothing ever works!.!.
i just really am questioning wtf is wrong with me,
why i have to feel this way,
why i'm like this,
and why i can't change!.
if you have any help just let me know!.
say what you want,
i'm judged a lot anyway!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
so i see myself as;
-the ugliest person on the face of the earth!.
-the person who cares about what people say too much!.
-the girl who no one likes!.
-the girl who's the outcast!.
-the girl with not a friend to her name!.
-the girl with no hobbies or talents!.
-and the girl who spends her time doing this!.
because i can't do anything else, and don't care about anything!.
i'm tired of ^ that person!.
i really want to just believe in myself,
and i have been trying for the longest time!.
but nothing ever works!.!.
i just really am questioning wtf is wrong with me,
why i have to feel this way,
why i'm like this,
and why i can't change!.
if you have any help just let me know!.
say what you want,
i'm judged a lot anyway!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It's very easy to be negative towards yourself!. An exercise that I learned in my studies is that every night, before you go to bed, come up with 5 reasons you like yourself and NO negative things!. Ignore the negatives!. If you do this every night, and honestly try to come up with new things, not just reuse things out of ease, you can improve your self esteem!.
People will always find reasons to judge other people!. You can't control what people think or say about you, but you can learn to not let it bother you!. As a general rule, people can't stand to see other people doing well in one way or another!. So if you stand out in any way they'll judge you, and if you try not to stand out, they still will!. Just learn to accept that!. Just because people judge you doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you, just society as a whole!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
People will always find reasons to judge other people!. You can't control what people think or say about you, but you can learn to not let it bother you!. As a general rule, people can't stand to see other people doing well in one way or another!. So if you stand out in any way they'll judge you, and if you try not to stand out, they still will!. Just learn to accept that!. Just because people judge you doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you, just society as a whole!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Bachelor's Degree in PsychologyWww@Answer-Health@Com
I can only assume that you're young (under 22), and for that reason you can't be hard on yourself!. this time in your life should not be focused on the things you listed; hobbies, personal life, looks, these things will come in time!. Focus on your studies and relationships with your family members!. If that doesn't work then set out to change yourself!. Get a new (perhaps drastic) haircut, try a new style in clothes, if you're not happy with who you are then do something about it!. We can not change the ways that others view us, but we can change the way we view ourselves!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
awww that really sad!. did someone tell u these things when u were young!. get away from those ppl who tell u these thing!. not allppl are mean!. looks arent always the biggest thing!. theres a lot of ppl who are gorgeous but i dislike them cuz their assessss!. u need self esteem to realize ur hobbies!. seek mental help itll help alotWww@Answer-Health@Com
good luck ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Since you are twelve, you will probably:
-grow up to be a pretty girl!.
-have a lot of friends
-be very talented
the fact is, you will never know what happen tomorrow, cheer up, there are always some surprises waiting for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
-grow up to be a pretty girl!.
-have a lot of friends
-be very talented
the fact is, you will never know what happen tomorrow, cheer up, there are always some surprises waiting for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, you knaw what the Truth is, Jesus is your friend, and Jesus Loves you, so you shpuld never feel unloved or friendless, I'll keep you in my prayers and God Bless you and may you find His light at the end of the dark tunnel!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Believe in you and go for what you want!.
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