HELP PLEASE!!!! SCARED TO DEATH!!?!
Question: HELP PLEASE!!!! SCARED TO DEATH!!!?
i like this guy, and he asked me to come over, and i got scared!. i asked my friend alexis to come too and she told me not to go over there at all because his friends were over there and there were 4 of them!. she said they would grab me, corner me and like, rape me!. I went without her before his friends arrived, and he was all like, nice and crap!. now i went there while she watched from a distance, (she was scared because one of them forced her to let him finger her!) and confronted them about how big of jerks they were!. one of them said they would get me to do something with one of them one day!. he was just kidding, but he was the on that forced my friend to let him finger and feel her!. i cant tell my parents because they will KILL me if they found out i was hanging out with him! what should I do without anyone else getting involved!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi,flirtygrrlkatie!. How are you tonight!? I'm sorry to hear about your traumatic experience!. You and your friend,Alexis should stay together and avoid this kids the best you can!. The best idea I can give you is to keep around groups of kids!. Even going home from school!. That way they can't do anything to hurt you!. It is best to stay in numbers!. May I ask if these kids take drugs!? Sounds like it!. Drugs and/or alcohol!. Do you know of some guy friends you can trust to hang around you!? That way they can act as a loyal guard dog!. It is a good idea not to get your parents involved unless it gets worse!. But it isn't just as long as you don't get near these kids!. Mostly all teenage boys are perverts!. And those that aren't are either queer or charming!. I hope this answer helps you out!. If I can help some more,Just let me know!. Like before,I am so so sorry you had to experience this!. This ruins the rep of all good guys out there!. There are some great guys out there!. You just need to keep a keen eye out for them!. Try to have a goodnight,Okay!? flirtygrrlkatie,I'll say some extra prayers for you tonight!. You're a great kid!. I wish you the best,Hon!. Take care and God bless!. Bye for now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. Don't go over there EVER again!. Not alone, not with a friend, not at all EVER!.
2!. Repeat number 1!.
3!. Stay away from all of these guys, for your own safety!. Frankly, I don't care if one of the 'seemed nice'!. If he's hanging around a guy who'd force himself on your friend, I'd steer clear of all of them!.
4!. Tell your friend that she needs to report the guy who assaulted her to the police and/or tell her parents!.
ETA: Your words " but he was the on that forced my friend to let him finger and feel her!."
She may not have been assaulted (only she really knows) BUT it sounds like she was definatly pressured and regretful!. Nice guys don't pressure a girl to the extent that she's upset and concerned enough to warn you to stay away!.
Simple answer, read your own title!.!.!.!.if you're scared to death, stay away!. I know you like this boy, but trust me, there will be many other boys to like! You can enjoy being a teenager and stay safe at the same time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2!. Repeat number 1!.
3!. Stay away from all of these guys, for your own safety!. Frankly, I don't care if one of the 'seemed nice'!. If he's hanging around a guy who'd force himself on your friend, I'd steer clear of all of them!.
4!. Tell your friend that she needs to report the guy who assaulted her to the police and/or tell her parents!.
ETA: Your words " but he was the on that forced my friend to let him finger and feel her!."
She may not have been assaulted (only she really knows) BUT it sounds like she was definatly pressured and regretful!. Nice guys don't pressure a girl to the extent that she's upset and concerned enough to warn you to stay away!.
Simple answer, read your own title!.!.!.!.if you're scared to death, stay away!. I know you like this boy, but trust me, there will be many other boys to like! You can enjoy being a teenager and stay safe at the same time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You shouldn't *like* boys who hang out with other boys who assault girls!.
You shouldn't take your friends to houses where they've been assaulted!.
You shouldn't let yourself be coerced into doing what you don't what to do!.
You shouldn't say silly things like "my parents will KILL me!.!.!."!.
You SHOULD behave like a more sensible young lady -- immediately!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You shouldn't take your friends to houses where they've been assaulted!.
You shouldn't let yourself be coerced into doing what you don't what to do!.
You shouldn't say silly things like "my parents will KILL me!.!.!."!.
You SHOULD behave like a more sensible young lady -- immediately!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you are pretty young!. My advise is to stay away from these boys, they are up to no good!. Respect yourself and your body!. I would guess you could do better!. That's NOT a safe thing to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
TELL UR PARENTS THEY'LL BE MAD AT FIRST BUT THEY'LL HELP YOU GET THROUGH THIS WHO CARES IF UR GROUNDED ATLEAST U WONT BE (FINGERED)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are still just a kid
you don't realize what kind of life you would live
not respecting your body in this way
can result to death orWww@Answer-Health@Com
you don't realize what kind of life you would live
not respecting your body in this way
can result to death orWww@Answer-Health@Com
Looks like common sense is telling you not to go over!Www@Answer-Health@Com
stop going over there for your own safety!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell your parents and call the policeWww@Answer-Health@Com
uh, leave those creeps alone!?Www@Answer-Health@Com