Oh my god. scary...please read on?!
Question: Oh my god!. scary!.!.!.please read on!?
so!. I will start off by saying that I am recovering from an eating disorder!. I've been through treatment after almost dying
today was really really scary for me!. I really need your help
ok!. so a while back my friend and I started a 'lose weight together' pact!. (she is in recovery too) we were gonna get to 100 lbs again!. but stuff happened and we had to quit!.
but today I went to take a pee and my friend Jenna!.!.who was who I made the pact with!.!.!.was puking out her guts
I told her I would stay and wait for her cuz she was really shaky and I didn't want to leave her
so eventually she couldn't get up to do it anymore!. so we were sitting on the ground!. and she was very very delirious!. couldnt talk very well!. very fragile!. I didnt want to leave her for fear of her life!. so I was 'keeping her here' so nothing bad would happen!. I was trying to keep conversation with her!. but it was hard!. she could only talk in whispers!. I had to wash her face with a cold rag!. I allowed her a 2 minute nap!. and I told her if she didnt wake up she would go to the hospital!. so I waited!.!.!.from 2:12 to 2:14!. I had to shake her to wake her up!. so we 'talked' a little bit more, until I told her that they would be looking for us (which I was hoping was the case!.!.!.but they didnt)
so the first time she stood up!.!.!.she passed out!. she knocked over the trash can and hit her head!. this time I was really really scared shitless!. so I shook her, held her hand and woke her up!. and I carried her out to the hallway cuz she wanted to go to class!. and thank god a teacher saw us!. she helped me carry her to a chair!. then she had another teacher sit with her and she asked what happend and I told her!. then I went back to class (first time all block) and my class decided to take a break in the gym!. so when I got in there I broke down crying!. and I talked to my social worker there about it!.
and now I am really worried about her!. she needs treatment!. and I told her that we need to be healthy!. and she didnt listen
so now like I said!. I am scared!. and I dont know what to do from here!.
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today was really really scary for me!. I really need your help
ok!. so a while back my friend and I started a 'lose weight together' pact!. (she is in recovery too) we were gonna get to 100 lbs again!. but stuff happened and we had to quit!.
but today I went to take a pee and my friend Jenna!.!.who was who I made the pact with!.!.!.was puking out her guts
I told her I would stay and wait for her cuz she was really shaky and I didn't want to leave her
so eventually she couldn't get up to do it anymore!. so we were sitting on the ground!. and she was very very delirious!. couldnt talk very well!. very fragile!. I didnt want to leave her for fear of her life!. so I was 'keeping her here' so nothing bad would happen!. I was trying to keep conversation with her!. but it was hard!. she could only talk in whispers!. I had to wash her face with a cold rag!. I allowed her a 2 minute nap!. and I told her if she didnt wake up she would go to the hospital!. so I waited!.!.!.from 2:12 to 2:14!. I had to shake her to wake her up!. so we 'talked' a little bit more, until I told her that they would be looking for us (which I was hoping was the case!.!.!.but they didnt)
so the first time she stood up!.!.!.she passed out!. she knocked over the trash can and hit her head!. this time I was really really scared shitless!. so I shook her, held her hand and woke her up!. and I carried her out to the hallway cuz she wanted to go to class!. and thank god a teacher saw us!. she helped me carry her to a chair!. then she had another teacher sit with her and she asked what happend and I told her!. then I went back to class (first time all block) and my class decided to take a break in the gym!. so when I got in there I broke down crying!. and I talked to my social worker there about it!.
and now I am really worried about her!. she needs treatment!. and I told her that we need to be healthy!. and she didnt listen
so now like I said!. I am scared!. and I dont know what to do from here!.
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Answers:
Sweetheart, I will pray for you and her and please know she is in God's hands!.
God will take care of her and she will get the help she needs!. Does your mom know you guys have this going on!? Perhaps it is time that you sit down with her and tell her!. Don't be scared!. I have four daughters and if my daughter kept this from me, I would feel really bad that she could not confide in me!. I am sure your mom would want to know!.
And don't forget, God is in control! :DWww@Answer-Health@Com
God will take care of her and she will get the help she needs!. Does your mom know you guys have this going on!? Perhaps it is time that you sit down with her and tell her!. Don't be scared!. I have four daughters and if my daughter kept this from me, I would feel really bad that she could not confide in me!. I am sure your mom would want to know!.
And don't forget, God is in control! :DWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Cassie, I have thought about this for quite a while before I decided on what to tell you!. If I were in your shoes, I would call her mother on the QT!. Tell her exactly what has happened and how worried you are about her!. It may help if you told your mother first and discussed it with her!. Perhaps the two of you could go and talk with her mother!. I am certain that her mother has no idea of how serious this is!. Do not feel like you are betraying her because you are not!. You will be helping to save her life!. And please don't put this off, she needs help as soon as she can possibly get it!. I am so happy you are recovering from your disorder, but you knew you needed help and you got it!. She is in immediate help of treatment and her life is hanging in the balance!. Please go and talk to your Mom first and get the ball rolling for her!. Please know that I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayersWww@Answer-Health@Com
oh wow that's crazy!. im so sorry to hear about that!. i know what your going through and im glad that your smart and know that you need to be healthy and eat because you can die from not eating!. im not sure what you where suffering from, anorexia nevosa or bulimia but its serious!. your friend needs you more than ever!. all you can do is be there for her becasue she need professional help right now!. i hope everything goes well!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont listen to that Ana person!. if u just all of a sudden start eating after making urself through up than u can get very very very ill!. talk to a trusted adult and get help!. you need to tell someone more important then ur social worker!.if they dont listen then they cant help!. ur friend could suffer permanent damage so just be supportive and dont continue the stupid lose weight together pact!. lose weight the healthy way, and i know ur probably sick of people telling u that (so am i!) but its the truth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell your Mom, this is something you will be struggling with for the rest of your life!. Your Mom needs to know so she can support you and help you when you need it!. That is what Mom's are for!. I am a Mom and I have a daughter who is nine, I try to make her feel good about herself but sometimes it is hard!. If she needed me I would want her to tell me!. I would not judge just hold her hand and try to make it less scary!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
talk to your mom, if you get a long with her!.
im 13!.
but if i were you , i would try to get out of it yourself!. im not even 100 pounds!. and 5'2/ i hate my size!.!. way too skinny!. you should just try to gsin weight!.!. and maybe that will motivate her, and make her trry to do the same !? good luck! best wishes!. hard situation for you !
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im 13!.
but if i were you , i would try to get out of it yourself!. im not even 100 pounds!. and 5'2/ i hate my size!.!. way too skinny!. you should just try to gsin weight!.!. and maybe that will motivate her, and make her trry to do the same !? good luck! best wishes!. hard situation for you !
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Ok so good for you for receiving treatment first off!. Very commendable!
Second take care of yourself, make sure you get strong and healthy!. Your friend will see that and want to be there as well!. Stick by your friend as long as it does not drag you back into what you are trying to climb out of!. Did your friend go to the hospital!? If so go visit her, check on her, make sure she knows that you are there for her!. She will appreciate it!. There is not to much more that you can do for her except stand by her side and give her the support that she needs!.
Good luck and stay strong!.
If you need to talk to someone there are many groups or counseling that you can get into!. Even if you do not have insurance there are county help lines that will assist you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Second take care of yourself, make sure you get strong and healthy!. Your friend will see that and want to be there as well!. Stick by your friend as long as it does not drag you back into what you are trying to climb out of!. Did your friend go to the hospital!? If so go visit her, check on her, make sure she knows that you are there for her!. She will appreciate it!. There is not to much more that you can do for her except stand by her side and give her the support that she needs!.
Good luck and stay strong!.
If you need to talk to someone there are many groups or counseling that you can get into!. Even if you do not have insurance there are county help lines that will assist you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OK, you did what you could to help your friend, so try to calm down and don't blame yourself!. Your friend probably hasn't hit her head that badly, she will be OK!. However, she has to start eating properly, as other people pointed out!.
Maybe you and your friend can pick up some sports!? Exercising burns calories so you really wouldn't have to limit yourself with food!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you and your friend can pick up some sports!? Exercising burns calories so you really wouldn't have to limit yourself with food!.Www@Answer-Health@Com