My girlfriend wants me to hit her?!
Question: My girlfriend wants me to hit her!?
This is my first girlfriend!. I really like her!. We have been going out for a couple months now!. She told me while we were making out to hit her!. I believe her exact words were hit me hard, bruise me, I want you to!. I would never lay a hand on a girl!. What should I do!? I do not want to hit her!. We are both 16!.
P!.S She was self destructive a while back, like cutting herself and such, but she told me she had stopped now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
P!.S She was self destructive a while back, like cutting herself and such, but she told me she had stopped now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If it's part of a sexual fantasy, then it's probably okay, but you need to lay down ground rules first!.
If it's not, then you need to have a long conversation with her about your relationship and why you won't!. also, suggest seeing a psychiatrist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If it's not, then you need to have a long conversation with her about your relationship and why you won't!. also, suggest seeing a psychiatrist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable - she clearly has issues!. Tell her you are not into hitting women - if she has a problem with that then it's time to move on!. LIght slapping and hair pulling is normal - wanting to be hit so hard that she bruises is not normal!. Just an FYI - if you guys ever get into a fight or something she could go to the police and say "look what he did to me"!. She sounds like trouble - and I know you really like her!. Just don't hit her!Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont leave bruises she might be a psycho and claim rape and bruises would be good evidence against you , but any ways there is just SOMETHING in the female psyche that they NEED to be humilitaed degraded and hit before they respect you as a man, they want to see you get angry at them and act all manlike I do not make up this rule it just seems to be like a woman only respects the man that treats them the worst I dont get it either but just play by the rules of the gameWww@Answer-Health@Com
!.!.!.I don't think she meant to literally hit her as in raise your hand and give her a good slap across the face!.
I think she meant it as a sex metaphor!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think she meant it as a sex metaphor!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
thats slightly odd more so cuz of her background!.!.!.!.in my opinion i like when my hubby bites me andgets a little rough but i dont have her background and i dont really want all the bruises nessasarlyWww@Answer-Health@Com
she is realli wierd lol dont hit her talk to her and tell her your not gonna hit herWww@Answer-Health@Com
Don't oblige her that's for sure!. That's really not healthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
HIT HERWww@Answer-Health@Com
DO IT !.!.!.!.CHICKENWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think you should!. She can turn it against youWww@Answer-Health@Com