Why is my self esteem so low?!
Question: Why is my self esteem so low!?
I don't want to sound big headed but i have a boyfriend and sometimes i get complinmented on my looks so why do i still feel like i need to improve the way i look!? I always find faults with myself and never really feel confident wearing clothes that reveal too much, i don't even go swimming anymore because i don't want anyone to see me!.Is there any way i can feel better about myself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I think you just have to concentrate on your best bits and enhance them!.
The media does not help, what with supermodels and airbrushed pictures of celebrities here there and everywhere- it makes us normal girls feel rubbish about ourselves!.
You sound very much like me, though I am not as bad as I used to be!.
Like I say concentrate on your best bits!. Look around you and you will see loads more people bigger/uglier/ worse off than you!.
If you are like me, you probably only notice the stunning people then beat yourself up for not looking like that!
Focus on your best bits and start to have more confidence in yourself- people will pick up on that and you will seem more attractive than ever!!
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
The media does not help, what with supermodels and airbrushed pictures of celebrities here there and everywhere- it makes us normal girls feel rubbish about ourselves!.
You sound very much like me, though I am not as bad as I used to be!.
Like I say concentrate on your best bits!. Look around you and you will see loads more people bigger/uglier/ worse off than you!.
If you are like me, you probably only notice the stunning people then beat yourself up for not looking like that!
Focus on your best bits and start to have more confidence in yourself- people will pick up on that and you will seem more attractive than ever!!
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's normal to feel unconfident about your body!. In modern day, it's way too focused on having the perfect looks!. You have to have the best hair, or the curviest body, or be big breasted like the models you see on TV or in magazines or you aren't accepted!. That might be affecting you or it might be because you feel uncomfortable with your body!. If you're still in your preteens to your twenties chances are your hormones are still adjusting to your body!. To help you get rid of the negative feelings try writing down all the bad things about yourself on a piece of paper and rip it up, and shout out to the world
"I'm Love Myself for Who I Am!" Accepting your body is a hard thing to do, but feel grateful you are healthy and strong enough to walk, run!. play, speak, see, and hear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"I'm Love Myself for Who I Am!" Accepting your body is a hard thing to do, but feel grateful you are healthy and strong enough to walk, run!. play, speak, see, and hear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Who do you need to impress!. Yourself!? Only you can change the way you look at yourself!. Others!? heres a great quote!.!.!.!." you wouldn't worry about what others think of you, if you actually knew how little of their time they spend doing it!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
cause u dont get out more !. we have the same probelm i dont like talkin to people or lookin in to peoples eyes !. i have fellings for a girl in my class but i cant talk 2 her!. but she has a low esteem 2!.soo it kind of wierdWww@Answer-Health@Com
because you have bought into the crap the media feeds us about having to be stick thin!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.big buisness makes a fortune out of people by selling them products to "help" them obtain the unobtainableWww@Answer-Health@Com
focus on something u lyk about urself!. and get a new thing u lyk bout urself lyk every week or month or something!. and then ur self esteem would go upWww@Answer-Health@Com
focus on the positives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com