Who do you go to when the people who are supposed to be 'there' for you,!


Question: Who do you go to when the people who are supposed to be 'there' for you, never are!?
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Well Ladytron that has not happened to me in a long time!.!.!.!.but there were times in my life when I was away from my parents home and felt very lonely and lost!.
I was 20 years old when I had some major doubts about my studies and personal life!. I called a friend ( so called friend, like the song) and she did not give a damn all she thought of was being 24/7 with her lover and even though I asked her several times to talk to her, she ignored me completely!.
I was very disappointed, could not understand her attitude and lack of loyalty!. We had been friends since 12 years old and I was always there for her!.
That time I remember I swore to myself to never again need anyone!. I walked the shores of the Rhine River and meditated about my decisions!. There were some phone calls to my parents, but basically it was to feel their love not to ask for advice!. I understood that there are some things we must learn to decide on our own and not expect anything from others!. Finally the conversations we have with others!.!.!.are only like a screen on which we project our own thoughts and beliefs!.
I know of some friends who talk to their shrinks or priests!.!.!.but I guess it is similar!.
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know I sound like a looser but sometimes I talk to myself metal in my head,or my friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you need someone to talk to maybe i can help u out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

:( I wish I knew !.!.
you could try writing in a journal, that definately helps !.!.
it gets all ur emotions out so uu can deal with them !.!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Noone, I just find a hole and crawl in it tl everything is ok!.

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i try to find answers else where!.!.!.!.!.books!.!.!.music!.!.!.!.and if i need to!.!.!. I researchWww@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to my real true friends that live inside me head!.

Just kidding, I have dealt with that a lot from the time I was a kid I was on my own thru alot of abuse I learned to rely on no one but myself it sucks but its what I am used to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No one, screw them all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, I used to talk to my Grandfathers grave!. Now that my parents are both gone I usually stop by and talk to dad!. He makes me come up with my own answers, but he was the best person that I have ever known so I look to him for inspiration!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My dogs! They always listen to me whine!! lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

If they were never there for me, I'd think about making some new friends!.!.!. The way I see it, it's a friend's 'job' to be supportive, just as it's my 'job' to be supportive of them when they need it, too!. I value friendships very much, and don't mind putting time and energy into them, but when the feeling is not returned, not much you can do about it except learn from the experience, and try to choose better next time!.!.!. I guess!. Hard question!!

If it's your folks or your family ~ well, you can't choose your relatives!.!.!. just have to make the best of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i don't go to anyone in particular!. i just go to my music because it always makes me feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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