Would u pull back or continue to draw her out?!
Question: Would u pull back or continue to draw her out!?
You know someone who is very shy, quiet and reserved!. She's slowly opened up to you, but you usually have to initiate conversations!. You asked her a question and she opened up a lot, revealing a lot of personal information!. But she seemed nervous while doing so - she was fiddling with things and seemed very fidgety!. Yet, she continued to open up despite these nervous quirks!.
Knowing this, in the future, would you try to pull back a little bit when around her or continue to try to get her to open up!? How come!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Knowing this, in the future, would you try to pull back a little bit when around her or continue to try to get her to open up!? How come!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I would try to get her to open up!.
I'm not sure if it was you!. but I answerd a question about a teacher and a student being shy and all!.!.!.
if it WAS you!.!.!.!.
yes-definaltey keep trying to get her to open up!. she may be nervous!. but I bet it is really helping her!. like I get nervous when I am opening up to people!. or even talking to my therapist-alot of times I cant even make eye contact!.
but I think if you pull back she might think she has done something to make you mad or scare you off!.!.!.by opening up too much, you know!? she may feel nervous!.!.!.but she might not be sure whether she is freaking you out by opening up to you!. she may also think that you are just being nice and think she is being annoying or is bothering you!.
but I bet she really appreciates having someone like you to talk to!. and all you can do is be there for her!.!.!.she may even look up to you!?
just be aware of boundaries!
she is really lucky to have someone like you to help her!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not sure if it was you!. but I answerd a question about a teacher and a student being shy and all!.!.!.
if it WAS you!.!.!.!.
yes-definaltey keep trying to get her to open up!. she may be nervous!. but I bet it is really helping her!. like I get nervous when I am opening up to people!. or even talking to my therapist-alot of times I cant even make eye contact!.
but I think if you pull back she might think she has done something to make you mad or scare you off!.!.!.by opening up too much, you know!? she may feel nervous!.!.!.but she might not be sure whether she is freaking you out by opening up to you!. she may also think that you are just being nice and think she is being annoying or is bothering you!.
but I bet she really appreciates having someone like you to talk to!. and all you can do is be there for her!.!.!.she may even look up to you!?
just be aware of boundaries!
she is really lucky to have someone like you to help her!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like she is insecure, help her out, try to draw it out in her, make her feel more comfortable with herself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
awww try 2 help herWww@Answer-Health@Com
!.!.!.!.why would you pull away when she's opening up to you!?
she's pretty shy, may have some social phobia/anxiety and insecurity issue!.!.!.!.!.she fidgets because she's scared!.
but she opened up because she trusts you!.
be a good friend, care!.
cause if you pull back, it's just gonna make her more scared!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
she's pretty shy, may have some social phobia/anxiety and insecurity issue!.!.!.!.!.she fidgets because she's scared!.
but she opened up because she trusts you!.
be a good friend, care!.
cause if you pull back, it's just gonna make her more scared!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't pull back cuz then she'll get sad and think that you were just messing with her!. be nice 2 her and then she wont get nervouse anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would help her!. I'm like her!.!.!.and nobody helps me!.!.!.so nothing is changing!. this sounds a lot like me and my friend!.!.!.shes trying!.!.!.which is something i can smile about!. at least she cares that much to at least try!. good luck!. don't push it too much!.!.!.give her some space!. but definitely help her out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is difficult to say unless we were present during the conversation!. I would suggest using body language!. If she looks like a scared rabbit ready to dart don't press any further!. If she is making occasional eye contact then you can press on!. Another clue is if she has her arms and/or legs crossed she isn't really open to the conversation and isn't relaxed and I would be cautious!. This is a sign that a person isn't open at that time!. Just be understanding when talking to her and just give of yourself and the conversation may continue!. Don't give up on her and walk away!. She sounds like a person that may be shy and could use someone to chat with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would try to establish a friendship with the person and develop rapport!. Everyone needs friends!. But I wouldn't push too hard to make her open up in a more social sense!. Some people are just naturally introverted, and that's OK, but that makes it hard to make friends!. Introverts often make for very close, loyal, and generous friends!. It takes a while to establish those friendships, but they're well worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com