How can I get over my fear of seeing old friends???????????????!
Question: i am 16. i moved from my town and school and lost touch with all my good friends when i was 13. i hate seeing my old friends even though i love them so much and grew up with them..im just scared how weird it will be and what they will think of me..if they will think i have changed alot or if they will have outgrown me and find me boring or weird. i have no problem hanging out with people i see at school everyday but when it comes to old friends i freak. i only see my best friend who i love so much once a year. BUT...i used to play on this basketball team from the age of 7-13. and now i am 16.one of the moms on the team wants me to play in a tournament with them in a month. i dont want to but my dad wants me to so i have to. i already committed. how can i stop freaking out and stop being nervous and just relax and how can i make it so i like seeing my old friends and people i used to know????
Answers: i am 16. i moved from my town and school and lost touch with all my good friends when i was 13. i hate seeing my old friends even though i love them so much and grew up with them..im just scared how weird it will be and what they will think of me..if they will think i have changed alot or if they will have outgrown me and find me boring or weird. i have no problem hanging out with people i see at school everyday but when it comes to old friends i freak. i only see my best friend who i love so much once a year. BUT...i used to play on this basketball team from the age of 7-13. and now i am 16.one of the moms on the team wants me to play in a tournament with them in a month. i dont want to but my dad wants me to so i have to. i already committed. how can i stop freaking out and stop being nervous and just relax and how can i make it so i like seeing my old friends and people i used to know????
theres nothing you can do, if you see them, then you see them. i suppose you can do your best to avoid them. goodluck